"Unoziva here?", "Fungidzira!" - vanoita makuhwa panguva yemasikati uye chero nguva ipi zvayo, vasingasiyi mukana wokutaurirana nyaya dzezvino. Pamberi pedu pane dambudziko - chii icho, kutaura kusina maturo, kana nguva inopedzwa uchibatsirwa iwe pachako?
Zvinhu zvinoshamisa
Masayendisiti anofambira mberi weYunivhesiti yeIndiana (USA) akaratidza kuti makuhwa, ivo havatenderwi kutonga pamusoro pevanhu vasiripo panguva ino, vane kuongororwa kwakaipa munzanga. Mushure mezvose, hazvifidzwi nehupfumi hwevatengesi, uye vazhinji vanongozvidzivirira vanhu vakadaro.
Nditendei, mukukurukurirana humwe humwe humwe humwe huripo huwandu, uye chido chekushambidza mapfupa omunhu chinobuda kune zvimwe zvikonzero. Nhema dzinoreva kugovana ruzivo, kuongorora, kazhinji kusina musoro, kuenzanisa nemunhu, kutsvaga kukanganisa. Zvichida mushure mokutarisa kutsva kwetsanangudzo yeiyi pfungwa, iwe uchachinja maonero ako kune makuhwa here?
Saka, vanoona nezvepfungwa vanoti vanhu, vachikurukurirana nezvinetso zvevamwe vanhu, vanoratidzika kuzviedza ivo pachavo maitiro uye mamiriro ezvinhu kune mumwe wavanoda kukurukura. Panguva imwecheteyo, vanofara kuti izvi hazvisi zviitiko zvinofadza hazvina kuitika navo, semugumisiro, kuzadzika kweizvi, kuenzanisa ne "chinzvimbo" chavo, chinoita kuti vanyarare.
Zvakawanikwa zve "hobby"
1. Kunyaradza . Masayendisiti akaratidza kuti kuendeswa kwemashoko kunobatsira kudzikama. Apo munhu paanenge achikurukura achidzidza chimwe chinhu pamusoro peimwe, kunyanya kana ruzivo urwu ruvara rwakashata, ipapo mwoyo wake unowedzera kuwedzera, kunzwa kwekuzvidya mwoyo kunowedzera. Mamiriro akadai akadaro anokonzerwa nekuti iwe unoda kutaura chinhu ichi kune mumwe munhu. Zvinobatsirawo kana munhu wacho asingadi kutaura zvizhinji pamusoro pake, ndicho chikonzero achitaura nezveumwe munhu. Nokuda kweizvi, kukurukurirana kwomumwe munhu kunze kunoita kuti kutaura kwako nemumwe munhu kuve kwakachengeteka, nokuti iwe unokurukura nyaya dzinokufadza iwe, asi usabata iwe pachako.
2. Mugumisiro wekuvandudzwa . Akambotaurwa kare masayendisiti ave akaratidza kuti makuhwa uye kukurukurirana zvakabatana zvakananga nekushanduka-shanduka, sezvavakabatsira mavha vanhu vanosarudza vatungamiri, kusabatanidzisi vanyengeri uye mbavha. Chiremba weScience N. Emler akataura kuti ive makuhwa anotiparadzanisa kubva kumhuka uye akaita kuti kuumbwa kwemapoka akawanda akarongeka pakati pevanhu vekare. Tinogamuchira ruzivo rutsva zvakananga kuburikidza nenhema, kazhinji dzisiri nhema, asi, chero zvakadaro, dzinobatsira, kana chete nekuda kwekuita zvikanganiso zvakafanana muupenyu hwedu. Isocial Issues Research Centre yakapa mamwe mashoko: 33% yevarume uye 26% yevakadzi vanochera zuva nezuva. Chinhu chakanaka ndechekuti varume vanoshevedza makuhwa avo-kukurukurirana, uye vakadzi havasi kukanda mazwi kubva kuimba iyo uye vanoti sezvavari, "makuhwa."
3. Batsira shamwari . Vamwe vanyori vezvemagariro evanhu vanokurudzira maonero aya: kakawanda, makuhwa anokonzerwa nechimwe chido chekubatsira. Zvakaoma kutenda, asi ichokwadi. Nokupa mumwe munhu ruzivo rwakashata pamusoro pekuzivikanwa kwemumwe munhu, isu tinowanzoda kudzivirira munhu uyu. Iye zvino, iyo yekupedzisira yakashongedzwa nezivo uye, ngatiti, takagadzirira kurwisa muvengi. Pano chinhu chakakosha chiripo, kuitira kuti munhu uyu haana kuudzwa zvisina kujeka.
Munhu wose anoziva kuti pane vanhu vanozvimene ivo pachavo, inenge iri tsime reguhwa. Vanoziva zvinhu zvose uye munhu wose, munguva yezviitiko uye nhau, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - vanoziva nzira yekupa ruzivo muvara rakanaka. Pamusana payo, ivo vanozivikanwa. Asi, tenda ini, vanhu avo vane upenyu huzere nezviitiko zvinonakidza, zviito zvakasiyana-siyana, kuziva, shamwari, havazombotauri nezvehupenyu hwomumwe munhu. Nokuti chido chokunyomba
4. Kukurudzira kwakasimba nekugadzirwa kwehukama hwehukama . Mhwahwa inotikurudzira kuti tive nani. Isu tinotya kuti pakarepo tinotongerwa mhosva, nekuda kwekuvhara nekunyunyuta, icho chinotikurudzira kuti tisadaro.
Pane pfungwa yokuti makuhwa anoparadza ushamwari. Asi inosvika, kwete. Nokuda kweveveve, ushamwari hunogona kuva hutsinye. Kubva, pakurukura mumwe munhu, vanhu vanofunga kuti havasi ivo uye pfungwa yavo inovabatanidza.
Uye zvino funga, kangani iwe ucheche? Uye zvakadini? Iye zvino unoziva kuti ichi ichiri chakanaka!