Kushungurudza nekupamba - maitiro ekubata ne blackmailer?

Munhu wese ane nzvimbo isina simba, uye "iyo nzira yekudzora" iri kutarisa mubhadharo wake. Kushungurudzika kunotyisa kwepfungwa, iyo iyo mutemo inopa chirango chaicho. Asi, kunyange nekudzivirirwa kwevanhu vagari nemutemo, chero munhu anogona kuve akakanganisa, nokuti mumusangano wepasi rose, blackmailers nevekugadzirisa vane unyanzvi hwakanyanya.

Blackmail - chii ichocho?

Kushungurudza chinhu chakaipa chinosangana nekutyisidzirwa kwekutaura chokwadi chinopesana (ruzivo, mapikicha, video, audio) kuitira chinangwa chokuita mari kana kuwana maidiro aunoda, kubvuma. Kushungurudza inzira yakanaka yekushandisa vanhu, uye isu tose tinogona kuurayiwa

Psychology of blackmail

Kuve wakagadzirirwa kusangana nematambudziko, uye kuziva kuti ungaitei nevanoshungurudza, iwe unofanira kutanga utanga psychology yezviitiko izvi. Simba pamusoro pemunhu wacho! Iyi ndiyo mhedzisiro yese yekupamba, saka kutyisidzirwa kwekunyadzisa ndicho chirevo chikuru chekumanikidzwa, chinokubvumira kuti utakure munhu akakwidza mukona uzvidzivirire iwe, kukumanikidza kuti uite mirairo yezvakanaka zvako. Muchikamu chikuru, vanyori havaendi, vanowana zvavanoda, uye vanoramba vachidzvinyirira munhu, vachida kuzadzika kwezvido zvavo uye vanozvipfumisa pachavo pamutengo wake uye mberi.

Emotional blackmail

Imwe yemhando yekushandiswa kweimba ndiyo simba-vampirism uye kushungurudzika mupfungwa, iyo inotonhora kusvika kune chinhu chimwe chete - kuwana izvo zvinoda chero nzira. Mumhuri dzakawanda kune vakadaro. Kubva pamiromo yavo vanobvunda kutyisidzira, kutuka, kutevera chinangwa chimwe. Uye nokuda kwe "kunyengetedza" akadaro anenge munhu wose anopa mukati, asingafungi kuti ivo pachavo vanozvikwidziridza kunzvimbo yevanhu vanotambudzwa.

Kune marudzi matatu evanotambudza mupfungwa:

1. "Chirwere" chinoda kusununguka kusingabvumirwi. Mabasa ane utsinye, pakuzadzisa chinangwa chake chakaoma, simba, kwete kupa munhu wacho mukana muduku zvishoma wokuramba. Kutsausa kutarisa kwekutyisidzira: "Edza kusaita ..." kana kuti "Ndinokunyeverai kwenguva yekupedzisira ...", tungamira munhu akabatwa mumamiriro ekudzvinyirira mupfungwa uye kuora mwoyo.
2. "Murwere" . Icho chinyorwa chemasmailers chakanyatsopesana nekutanga. Kusuruvara kwekutadza, kusuruvara, kuora mwoyo kunoendesa hama dzisina hanya kuti dziende pamusoro pavo. Kazhinji, kutaura kwemashoko kunoguma nekutaura nezvekurwara kwakakomba kana chido chokufa, kuzviuraya kwakarongwa kana kuti "hapana munhu anondida, haanzwisisi, handina hanya nevose" kuitira kuti zvizadzise zvinoda simba vampire .
3. "Ane mhosva pasina mhosva" . Vanhu vakadaro vanyengeri vane masayendisiti ekunyengedza avo vanogona kukurudzira avo vanovhiringidzwa nemafungiro emamwe mhando yekutadza kana manzwiro emabasa kwavari. "Ane mhosva" vanozvitengesa ivo pachavo muuranda hwakadaro uye vanotenda kuti munhu wese ari kuita chinhu chakanaka, achibvumirana nekuputika kwemusiya.

Kuita zvepabonde kushamwaridzana

Muhukama hwevanhu, kuvhiringidza zvepabonde kunogona kuitika, asi kwakakamurwa kuva mhando dzakasiyana:

1. Kushungurudza muhukama . Anononoka, haasi iye. Somugumisiro wehuwandu hwemamiriro ekugadzirisa, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare chirongwa chekupedzisira chichasimuka: "kwete newe, saka kune imwe." Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, hukama hunowanzotadza kukanganisa, nokuti pasi pekunyanya kushamwaridzana hukama hwepedyo hunozoita kuti munhu atsamwiswe uye anonyangadza.
2. Kuomerera kuita zvepabonde pasi pekumanikidzwa . Iyi inowanzoitika kune hukama hune hukama, huchibva pane zvekufambisa nzvimbo kana pamapato. Sezvo murairo vanyori mumamiriro ezvinhu aya varume, vachitsvaga kubva kune vakadzi kushamwaridzana, uye vekupedzisira vanokwanisa kubvumirana pasina chido chikuru nekuda kwekutya kukashaya muroori anovimbisa. Zvisinei, usakanganwa kuti varume vakawanda vanogona kutamba chete, saka vachiona kuti mukadzi anofarira kuwana.
3. Kumanikidzirwa kuhukama hwepedyo kana kuti kupa humwe rudzi rwebasa, kana sekubhadhara kwekuvanza zvinhu zvinopesana . Iyi ndiyo mhando yakaipa kwazvo yenyaya dzepabonde dzinosangana nechisimba.

Zviratidzo zvekushungurudza

Chimbo chinonyanya kukosha cheblackmailer ruzivo, runotsigirwa neuchapupu. Izvi zvingava mufananidzo wakajeka, kukanganisa kurekodhwa kana mavhidhiyo. Mune ukama hwemunhu oga, munhu anonyadzisira anogona kutamba pamanzwiro ake, somuenzaniso, achityisidzira nekuzviuraya, kuputsa hukama , kutambura kwetsika. Kazhinji kacho munhu anenge atambudzwa haasi nguva dzose anoziva kuvimba kwake kune blackmailer. Sarudza izvi zvinogona kuitika pane zvinotevera:

• kutsvaga chikonzero chezviito zvake pamusoro pe blackmailer;
• kuita zviito kufadza mumwe munhu;
• kusateerera kusinganzwisisiki;
• kushanda kwezviito zvinopesana nezvinodiwa nomunhu, pakuguma kwekutambudzika kwemudiwa;

• kushaya kuda uye kugutsikana kwakakwana.

Zvakadini kana iwe uri kuvharwa?

Kuvhiringidzika nekupambwa, chaizvoizvo, kune mhosva kune chimwe chikonzero-chikonzero chekuregererwa. Izvo zvinofanira kuonekwa panguva imwechete kuti vazhinji vanonyadzisa kana musha "magandanga" havaregi, vaine zvavanoda, uye vanoramba vachishandisa simba ravo pamusoro pemunhu anenge avhiringidzika kuitira kuti vagutse zvido zvavo . Nokudaro, iwe unoda kuziva kuti ungaitei nevanoshungurudza uye kuti ungaita sei nevanotambudza.

Nzira yekuita sei ne blackmailer?

1. Usatya zvachose. Iwe unofanirwa kuzviswededza iwe pamwe chete uye funga zvakananga.
2. Usatora pfungwa kune iyo blackmailer inokuudza, nokuti chinangwa chake chikuru ndechekutyisidzira uye kutora zvose pasi pekutonga kwake. Iva nemoyo wakadzikama, nekuda kwekuzvibata uku kubva kwauri zvirokwazvo hautarisiri mufambiro wakadaro.
3. Usaedza kutaurirana nemupambi uye usamupa zvaanokumbira. Mune mamiriro ezvinhu, zvakanakisisa kutora nguva yekuwana mahofisi emitemo kuti vanzwisise nyaya iyi.
4. Kana iwe uri kuvharwa neruzivo, zvakanakisisa kuudza hama dzako nezve "zvivi" zvako kuhama dzako. Nokudaro iwe uchapa ruzivo sezvazviri, pasina embellishment uye kushamwaridzana iwe hauzove nechinhu.

Nzira yekubvisa sei blackmailer?

Kuzvidzivirira kukuru pamusoro pekunyadzisa ndiko kukanganwa zvachose kwe blackmailer. Kana iwe usingaiti nenzira chero ipi zvayo yekutyisidzira, saka zvinowanzoita kuti kupambwa kunomira, nokuti chinangwa chekunyadzisa hachisi kukanganisa, asi kufarira. Inofanirawo kuyeukwa kuti kudzivirirwa kwakanakisisa ndiko kurwisa, kureva, kuunza mhosva, uye kurangwa nekuda kwekushungurudza kunosanganisira mazwi echokwadi uye akajeka ejeri mune zvinyorwa zvakawanda, zvichienderana nekuoma kwehutsinye. Funga nezvemutoro wekunyomba pamusoro pemirairo yeRussian Federation:

• Art. 163 yeCriminal Code - kudzvinyirira, kusvika makore gumi nemashanu ejeri uye mubhadharo kusvika kumazana makumi maviri nemaviri euru rubles;
• Art. 138 yeCriminal Code - kutyora kwekuvanzika kwemashoko kunorangirwa nehupfumi hwemabhora makumi mapfumbamwe makumi matatu;
• Art. 137 yeCriminal Code - kukanganisa kwehupfumi. Chirango chemakore maviri ejeri uye mubhadharo kusvika kusvika kumazana makumi maviri nemaviri euru rubles.

Nzira yokuratidza dhimail?

Kunyengera uye kushungurudzika pfungwa mbiri dzinofambidzana muchechi yemutemo, uye uchapupu hwaro huri nemhando dzakawanda. Panoti, shure kwezvose, kuratidza chokwadi chekushungurudza:

1. Edza kugadzira zvinyorwa zvemahofisi kana kutumira hurukuro nemusiya.
2. Apo munhu anorwisa anozivisa zvaanoda, edza kunonoka kuendeswa kwemari kana izvo zvinosvibisa zvinoda. Uye chero zvakadaro haufaniri kuenderera mberi nechokunyengedzera pasina kuchengeteka pane chikamu chekutsvakurudza, kana zvisina kudaro chokwadi chekushungurudza chinoratidza kuti hazvigoneki.
3. Zvadaro, iwe unofanirwa kutora mutemo wekuteerera nemashoko akazara uye kupa kwehupi huchapupu huripo hwehutsinye uye mamwe mabasa ezvakaipa.
4. Mushure mokunge uchitanga kupomerwa mhosva, teerera nemapurisa ose anoda. Zvinokwanisika kuti zvichauya kune zvepayenzi teknolojia (wiretapping, covert kupopotera) uye mabhidhiji akaiswa.
5. Paunenge uchitaura nemusikana, ita zvinhu zvakasununguka kuitira kuti "hove isasiye chikoro chekururamisira", achifungidzira chimwe chinhu chakaipa.
6. Mushure mekunge mazadza upfumi nekuwana humwe humwe uchapupu hunodiwa, unogona kuva nechokwadi kuti mupambi achagamuchira mutongo chaiwo wekutamba.

Mafirimu pamusoro pekusviba

Imwe yemitambo yakanyanyisa mumitambo ndeye mafirimu uye zvinyorwa zvekupambwa:

1. "Vanyengeri vanofadza . " Chiito chezvikamu izvi chakasungirirwa pavanasikana vana, avo gore rimwe mushure mekufa kwehama yavo yavanogara, Alison anotanga kusvibisa zvisingazivikanwi. Mumaoko evanhu vane blackmailer mune zvakawanda zvakavanzika uye zvakavanzika, kunyange izvo zvaizivikanwa chete kune wakafa.
2. "Muvengi weHurumende . " Paunenge uchizvipira iwe kuva muridzi wehumwe uchapupu hunoratidza hurumende yepamusoro, hazvisi pachena kuti ndiani akakodzera kukuvadzwa munyaya iyi, nokuti kushambadzira chaiyo kunotanga kwauri.
3. "Runako uye Chikara . " Iwe wakagadzirira kuchengetedza hupenyu hwababa vako mutirongo musimba renhare here? Iro danho rakakomba richazochinja zvachose mugumo we Belle rakanaka.