Munhu munhu unofadza, unonzwisisa uye unokurumidza unhu huripo. Munhu mumwe nomumwe ane maitiro ake, unyanzvi uye unyanzvi hunokosha kwaari chete. Munyika hapano vaviri vanofanana zvakafanana nevanhu, isu tose takasiyana. Asi zvakadaro, masayendisiti anoshandiswa kuparadzanisa vanhu mumamwe marudzi, maererano nemafungiro avo uye maitiro avo munzanga. Saka munyika yedu yakaonekwa pfungwa yekutangisa uye kufuratira. Kusiyana pakati pekutsvaga nechokubudisa hakuonekwi pakutanga pakuona, nokuti kujekesa kunokosha kuti zvinyatsozivana nomunhu wacho.
Chii chinonzi introvenver and extrovert chinorevei?
An extrovert munhu anotaura zvikuru uye akazaruka. Anoda vatsva vanoziva uye misangano, inenge iri nguva dzose iri muchitarisiko. Vanhu vakadaro vanopedza pachavo kurudyi uye kuruboshwe vasina kutevera chinangwa chipi zvacho.
An introvert ndiyo yakavharwa uye yakavanzika. Anogara achibhabhatidza mukati make, asingadi kutanga hurukuro yekutanga, kana kuti, haazombotanga, kana asingatsvaki chimwe chezvibatsiro zvake.
Unogona kufambisa kuva wekutsvaga here?
Izvi zvinogona kuitika. Vamwe vanhu panguva yekuyaruka vanoita zvakavanzika uye vasingatauri, uye mune vamwe vakakura zvakatanga kuzarura pane rumwe rutivi. Iyi shanduko haisi nyore kumunhu, nokuti inofanira kuchinja zvachose iye uye tsika dzake. Asi, kuchinja uku kunowanzova nemigumisiro yakanaka muupenyu hwemunhu munguva yemberi. Anenge masayendisiti ose asvika pamhedziso yokuti extroverts inogara munyika yanhasi zviri nyore zvikuru.
Kuti anzwisise kuti ndiani ari mutauriri uye anonyadzisa, munhu anoda kudzidza zvakawanda kuti anzwisise vanhu. Chaizvoizvo, hazvisi zvakaoma, iwe unongoda kupa munhu rusununguko mukukurukurirana, usamupopotera uye kubvunza mibvunzo yakawanda. Nenzira, zvakakosha kuziva kuti kazhinji vanhu vanhu vauya, havagoni kuwana mutauro unowanikwa nechokubudiswa. Inopera nekuda kwechimiro chakasiyana zvachose. Vanotarisa nemaziso akasiyana panyika uye zvinetso uye haazombotendeuki mune imwe. Kuroorana pakati pevanhu vakadai hazvibviri kuitika.
Zviratidzo zvekutsvaga uye zvinyorwa
Zvakananga izvo zvinotaurwa zvinowanikwa hazviwanikwi panhoroondo iyi, asi kazhinji, zvinyorwa zvinowanikwa nemhando dzakadai se:
- kushamwaridzana;
- pfungwa yekuseka;
- riskiness;
- utsinye;
- ushingi;
- chivimbo.
Kana iwe uchifunga munhu mumwe oga zvakasiyana, zvino urongwa urwu runogona kuzadzikiswa kwenguva refu. Kutaura zvazviri, chimiro chinoputika chepopotti chinovabatsira kuti vanzwe vakasununguka munharaunda chero ipi zvayo, iyo inoshandiswa inogona kungotarisa.
Zvinyorwa zvinowanzove nezviito zvinotevera:
- kudzikama;
- kutsungirira;
- kuvimbika;
- chinotyisa pfungwa mindset;
- kuzvidzora.
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti ushamwari nemunhu akadaro hwakasimba kwazvo, nokuti ivo vanenge vasingakwanisi kutengesa mudiwa. Asi, nekuda kweruzhinji rwemagariro avo, vanhu vepedyo vane imwe.
Dzimwe nguva, munhu pachake pachake anozvibvunza kuti anganzwisisa sei, iye anotaurira, kana kuti anoremekedzwa. Zvakanyanya kuoma kuongorora maitiro ako muvanhu vemazuva ano zvisingabatsiri, asi kutevera zvose zvataurwa pamusoro apa, zvinogoneka. Kutanga, kuverenga nhamba yevamwe shamwari dzako, kureva huwandu, kwete huno. Yeuka kuti iwe unopedza sei nguva yako yekusununguka uye mhinduro ichauya pachayo pachayo.
Mukutaura, hazvina basa kuti uri vanhu vorudzii. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti urege kurasikirwa nekuremekedzwa nekuremekedzwa uye ipapo kune imwe nzvimbo yekuchengetedza iwe uchawana zvigaro zvako, pamwe neshamwari dzakavimbika, uye sangano rinofara uye zvimwe zvinhu zvakawanda zvakakosha munyika ino yemazuva ano.