Ndiani anoramba ari mukurambana naye?

Munyika imwe neimwe yepamutemo, kusanganisira Russia neUkraine, kodzero dzevana vaduku dzinodzorwa nemutemo. Zvechokwadi, vabereki vane rudo uye vane hanya ndivo vane basa rehutano uye hupenyu hunofadza hwemwana mumwe nomumwe kusvika pazera remakore gumi nemana. Kunyange zvazvo vanhu vakuru vasingatarisi nguva dzose kuchengetedza mhuri, kodzero dzemwana ari mukurambidza vabereki mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu haigoni kupesana.

Kusagadzikana kwemuchato munyaya iyo kana vakaroorana vane vana vanobatana pasi pezera remakore gumi nemasere, zvose muRussia uye muUkraine zviri kuitwa chete kuburikidza nedare. Panguva imwecheteyo, magweta anoongorora zvakajeka zvinhu zvakawanda zvinogona kuita kuti mwana arambe ari mupenyu. Muchikamu chino, tichakutaurira uyo mwana anoramba ari nekurambana kwevabereki, uye ndezvipi zvinotariswa munyaya iyi.

Ndivanaani vana vaduku vanoramba vachirambana?

Kutanga, zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti kodzero dzeamai nababa kumwana mukurambana zvachose zvakafanana. Kunyange zvazvo kazhinji vana vaduku vachiramba vaine amai vavo, izvi hazvirevi kuti papa haana kodzero yekusiya mwana wake mumba make.

Pane zvipo zvakasiyana-siyana zvekusimudzirwa kwezviitiko, kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yekugara kwecheche mushure mekurambana kwevabereki kunogona kutsanangurwa, ichiti:

1. Nzira iri nyore uye inonyanya kuwanika yekugadzirisa nyaya iyi ndeyekuita chibvumirano pamusoro pevana vasati vatonga dare. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, baba namai vanozvisarudzira ivo voga uye vanobvumirana nevana vacharamba varipi, uye kuti mubereki wechipiri achadzidzidzisa sei nekuichengeta. Panguva imwecheteyo, vakaroorana vanogona kubvumirana kwete kune mumwe chete kune mumwechete kudzidzisa, asiwo pajoka, umo mwana achararama nevabereki vaviri pamwe. Pakupedzisira, kana vakaroorana vane vana vanopfuura imwe, uye akawanda, mumagwaro akadaro anowanzoratidza kuti mumwe kana vana vanoramba vari naamai, uye vamwe - pamwe nababa. Muchiitiko ichi, dare rinofanira kuongorora zvakajeka uye kugamuchira chibvumirano kana zviitiko zvaro zvisingapindirani kodzero dzevaduku veduzhinji.
2. Zvinosuruvarisa, vazhinji vakaroorana avo vaimbove vafare, pakaparara kwewanano vanoramba kunyange kutaura, saka saka havagoni kubvumirana pane chimwe chinhu. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kuparadzanisa mwana mukurambana kuchagadziriswa nedare, kutarisa mamiriro ezvinhu semamiriro ezvinhu emhuri yevabereki vose, kuvapo kwehutano hwehutano, uye chido chemukomana kana musikana anopfuura makore gumi.

Murume angatora mwana mukurambana here?

Nhasi, vanababa vane rudo uye vane hanya vanoda kurera uye kutarisira vana vavo mushure mekuparadzwa kwewanano, kugara naye, hazvisi zvisizvo. Kuti ukwire mwana kubva kumudzimai wake panguva yekurambana, iwe unoda kuva nezvikonzero zvakadaro:

• kunwa doro kana kushandisa zvinodhaka kwemamai, mararamiro ake emufambiro;
• iyo insolvency yemari;
• kusimba kwekugara nzvimbo;
• kusagadzikana kwepfungwa muna amai vemwana;
• mararamiro emabasa ake, asingabvumi kupa kupa zvakakodzera mwana.