Nguva yokugara yakagara ichikoshesa munharaunda uye yava imwe yenharaunda inokosha iyo vanhu vanotongwa nayo: pavakashandira, vachibata mabhizimisi makuru emabhizimisi uye nhaurirano, uye vanogona kuonekwa sechiratidzo chekuvimbika kwevanhu nekuremekedza vamwe.
Chii chinonzi nguva?
Munguva yekukurumidza kushanduka kwezuva nezuva, kana zuva rizere nezviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana uye zvinhu, zvinowanzooma kuomerera purogiramu yakaoma uye kupedzisa musangano panguva yekubata imwe. Nguva yekubva (chiLatini punctum - pfungwa) ndiwo hutano hwemunhu, hunoratidzwa mukukwanisa kuva kose-kose munguva, zvakarurama munguva. Iwe unogona kutaura kuti iyi ndiyo rudzi rwetarenda, uye kwete zvose izvi zvinowanikwa nezvose zvinoda uye chido.
Ndezvipi nguva yekuwana munhu?
Murume akagara anoedza kutevera mirairo nemitemo. Nguva inofanira kuva mune zvose uye nguva dzose. Mukudzidza yekubata nguva seunhu hunhu hunhu , zvikamu zvinotevera zvekubata nguva zvinouya mberi:
- kururama;
- discipline;
- kuzviremekedza uye kuremekedza vamwe;
- kukosha kwezvako uye nguva yenguva.
Nguva - Nguva yakanaka kana yakaipa?
Munhu wenguva nguva munhu uyo, nekufamba kwenguva, anova "iwe". Vanhu vakadaro vanoita kuvimba nekuvanzwira vamwe. Kana tikafungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu apo musangano warongwa, kunyange kana usina nebhizimisi, asi neshamwari yakanakisisa, kunonoka kwake kunokonzera manzwiro evanhu vane ruzivo "kamwe kamwe chakaitika" uye kunzwa kwakagadzikana kwakanyanyisa kwekumanikidzika paunomanikidzwa kumirira. Nguva nguva yakanaka mumiganhu inonzwisisika uye chiratidzo chekuzvitarisira iwe nevamwe, asi kune imwe, yakatarisana nechekubata nguva:
- Munhu anonyanyisa nguva anowira mune zvakasiyana-siyana, anova anonyadzisa. Pedyo uye vashandi vomunhu akadaro vanotambudzika zvikuru kubva mukuratidzwa kwekutambudza, iyo, nekufamba kwenguva, yakawedzerwa kuva rudzi rwekusaziva: "Munhu wose anofanira kuenda kunorara pa 22.00 uye kwete kweminiti gare gare!"
- "Nguva" pakubata nguva vanhu vanoda kuchenjerera nguva yakafanana nekuzvipira kune vamwe. Uye kana, mutariri akadaro anouya kuzoshanda ne7, 30, ipapo vanofanira kunge vari panguva ino kubasa. Kuderedza nguva shomanana kunorayirwa nemitemo yakanaka kana yehutsika muhupo hwevamwe vashandi.
- Iyo hyperopia ye "uyewo" nguva yevanhu vanogona kutungamirira kumagunha.
Mirairo yekubata nguva
Kururamisa uye nguva yekuputira pfungwa. Munhu ane nguva ndeye munhu anonyatsorondedzera uye anonyatsorondedzera kune zvikamu zveenguva: nokukurumidza, nenguva, mune-uye-zvakadaro, mumwedzi. Iyo nguva uye mugadziri wemunhu akadaro ane ruzivo rwekucherechedza, iyo yaanoongorora kazhinji pazuva. Mitemo yevanhu vanobata nguva:
- Rwendo rwemisangano inokosha uye maitiro ekuona kubva manheru, kuronga kuva pose pose panguva yakatarwa.
- Kuita murairo wakajeka wepanguva yezuva: dzimwe nguva dzenguva yekuita nyaya (somuenzaniso, kutengesa pa7.05 kusvika kune 7.20) uye edza kunyatsotevedzera purogiramu iyi.
- Zuva raitevera rakagadzirirwa kubva manheru, pamwe chete nemagwaro anokosha anodiwa mubasa.
- Paunenge uchigadzirira mhaka, inguva yekufunga ne "duku".
- Nguva dzose yeuka kuti imwe nguva yeumwe munhu inokosha, uye mumwe munhu, kuenda kumusangano, anogona kuita zvimwe zvinhu zvinokosha, asi akasarudza musangano uyu - zvakakosha kuti usakanganwa nezvazvo.
Nguva yokubata mubasa
Nguva uye bhizinesi, iyo inobatanidza pfungwa idzi, inogona kuonekwa nenzira iyo inoshingaira yebhizimisi vanhu, vatungamiriri vanogara vachitarisa maziso avo. Nguva ndiyo mari. Mune nguva yakanyanyiswa kana kuti isina nguva, zvakakosha kusangana, kuongorora mumwe wako, kutaura uye kugumisa kana kusagumisa chikamu, kontrakiti. Nguva nguva ndeimwe yezvinhu zvinokosha zvebhizimisi kana kubudirira. Kuderera kwemaitiro akaipa pakati pevanhu vebhizimisi uye mukurumbira wevanhu vasingadikanwi ndeyekushambadzirwa nokusingaperi.
Nzira yekukudziridza sei nguva?
Nguva yekubatsira chinhu chinobatsira rubatsiro uye unyanzvi hwaunogona kuwana kuburikidza nekuzviisa iwe chinangwa chakadaro. Gavhuna anopa mazano ekuita nguva:
- Tora nguva iri pasi pesimba. Tenga zvakanaka, zvinotarisa zvinotarisa. Iko kupfeka kwekurinda kwave kuchiraira munhu wacho uye kunoita kuti utarise kudira kakawanda.
- Nguva yokutanga kushandura maoko eawa kwema 10-15 maminiti mberi, asi kutungamirirwa nenguva ino seyechokwadi.
- Munhu asingaiti nguva munhu ane usimbe asina chinangwa uye anofarira, pano basa iri kuratidza kufarira mune bhizinesi, basa.
- Zuva rega rega pa "kunzwa" kwenguva. Tora imwe nguva yemaminiti mashanu - 1 awa uye mukati unzwe kunzwa kuguma kwemuganhu. Kudzidzira kwenguva kunobatsira kuziva nguva chaiyo pasina kuvimba neawa.
Nguva yekuverenga muBhaibheri
Murume akakwana anofadza Mwari, vanotenda vanotenda. Miitiro yakawanda uye mazororo anoitika pane imwe nguva. Kuverenga mimwe minyengetero kunofanira kuitwa zvakakwana panguva, pamwe nekuchengetwa kwemakramendi, kunonoka. Mwari ari nguva, uye anochengeta shoko rake paanozivisa kuna Noa kuti mumazuva manomwe achabvisa kudengenyeka kwemvura pasi pano kwemazuva makumi mana. Kubwinya kwaNoa kumubatsira kupedzisa kuvaka kweareka nenguva, umo iye nemhuri yake vakaponeswa, mhuka nemiti zvakachengetedzwa. Ichi chidzidzo chinobva muBhaibheri chinodzidzisa chinhu chinonyanya kukosha - nguva dzinogona kuponesa upenyu.