Kusanzwisisika kushevedzera, kusavapo, kunhuwa kwemamwe madzimai emweya ... Vakadzi vanogara vachifunga kuti chimwe chinhu chakashata nevatendi vavo uye vanotanga kuzviwisira ivo, vachifungidzira iye wezvivi zvose zvinofa . Nzira yeku kunzwisisa uye kunzwisisa kuti murume ari kunyengera uye achibiridzira kana anongotya uye haararami munguva yakanakisisa yehupenyu hwake, achaudzwa munyaya ino.
Nzira yekuziva sei kana murume ari kuchinja?
Zviratidzo izvi zvinotevera zvinotungamirira kune pfungwa yekusavimbika kwevakatendeka. Heino ivo:
- Murume wacho ane manzwiro akazviparadzanisa. Haasisina hanya nekureva nhema kumativi ose vhiki yevhiki mubhedha, kutarisa mafirimu emitambo uye kuenda kunoshanyira. Paanoedza kurangarira nguva dzinofadza kubva muupenyu hwekare, anotora nyaya yacho kune imwe nzira.
- Kuchinja kwake kwezuva nezuva kunowedzera. Mushure mezvose, anodikanwa anoda nguva, uye kana vakatendeka vaigara vachienda kune bhizinesi, vanogara mubasa kwenguva refu kana mugaraji, izvi zvisiri izvo zvinogona kutsigira mudzimai wake.
- Kunzwisisa kuti murume akachinja nenzira iyo akatanga kutarisa chitarisiko chake. Uye kana asati atadza kunyatsotarisa bvudzi rake nekuvandudza wadhirobhe yaivimba nemudzimai wake, asi iye zvino anonyanya kusarudza chigunwe, kazhinji kunyorera kana kutarisa zviri nani ndebvu, anoshanyira mvura nguva zhinji pazuva uye anogara achichinja shati.
- Pamusoro padzimaikadzi haufaniri kungoita nguva chete, asiwo mari. Kuwedzerwa kwakadzika mubhadharo yemhuri, mari isina kurongwa uye imwe chiratidzo-alarm.
- Nhamba dzisinganzwisisiki mafoni uye SMS-ki, tsamba muhutano hwemagariro evanhu, nezvimwe. Kana murume akatanga kuvanza foni kubva kumudzimai wake, uye kana achitaura kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo, ichabatsira kunzwisisa kana murume wako akakuchinja iwe. Nenzira imwe neimwe, panguva yekuzorora, zvakakosha kutarisa foni uye kana pane mhando dzakawanda kubva kune imwe nhoroondo "Vasya" kana kuti "brigadier", unogona kuedza kudzokera kune nhamba iyi. Kunze kwekuti kujekeswa kwehukama ihwo humwe hwezvirongwa zvemudzimai wake.
- Kuchinja kwehupombwe ndiko chiratidzo chikuru chekusatendeseka komudzimai. Kana yakanyanyisa kana kuti, zvinopesana, zvinoratidza kusagadzikana kwakanyanya, kuratidza nzira itsva nemagadzirirwo, saka zviri pachena kuti yakanga isati iri kunze kwesimba rechitatu.
- Kutora murume wake pamusoro nekunze,
kusagadzikana, kuneta kubva muupenyu hwezuva nezuva nekurasikirwa kwechido kune vana zviratidzo zvekuti vakatendeka vanopera. - Vaya vanofarira kuti vanzwisise sei kana murume akashandura mutumbi wehutano, unogona kupindura kuti zvinokonzerwa kufungidzira mumwe wako kana asingapinduri kudana manheru ose, akauya kumba kwenguva pfupi uye podshofe, rumpled, disheveled, inonhuhwirira uye yakagadzirwa nemitsipa. Kushaiwa kwepurasitiki kana hunove hunoita huchapupu hunosimbisa zvakanyanya kunaka. Kunyangwe, zvichida, vaaishanda navo vaidya pamusoro pake.