Nguva nenguva, munhu mumwe nomumwe mupfungwa anodzokera kune zvakaitika kare, anosuruvara uye anoyeuka yekare. Izvi zvinonyanya kukosha kune vanhu vakwegura vanonzwisisa kuti hupenyu hwapfuura, kuti hwakanyanyisa kutanga chinhu chero chipi zvacho, uye chinoramba chiripo kuti uongorore zvakare zvakaitwa. Chii chinyorwa - munyaya ino.
Nostalgia - chii icho?
Izwi iri rinobva muchiLatini uye rinoshandurwa se "kunyangadza kweMamailand". Vaya vanofarira zvinorehwa nemanzwiro, zvinofanirwa kupindurwa kuti manzwiro aya ave achionekwa sechirwere, nokuti zviitiko zvekufa kubva pakuchida kubva kumba hazvisi zvisizvo. Pane imwe nguva akadzidziswa nachiremba kubva kuSwitzerland I. Hofer. Akatarisa varwi vanorwara uye vadzidzi vakamanikidzwa kugara kunze kwenyika, uye vakaona kuti pavakadzokera kumusha vakakurumidza kudzoka. Kusvika iye zvino, izwi iri rinoshandiswa kune manzwiro anowanikwa chero zviitiko muupenyu.
Ko kunyatsoziva zvakanaka kana kwakaipa here?
Izwi iri haigoni kupiwa kana rakanaka kana kuti yakaipa mavara. Kushuva kunogona kusanganiswa nemanzwiro ekusava netariro uye kusagadzikana kunorwadza, uye inogona kuita zvinofadza uye inofadza. Nostalgia yakanaka, uye vazhinji vezvepfungwa dzepfungwa vanoongorora mafungiro nezvekunzwa uku mumitemo yakasiyana-siyana uye zvitendero, mafirosofi anobvumirana. Kushuva, munhu anotsigira kuti "Iye" wake ndeyepi, kushamwaridzana nematanho ekutanga ehupenyu kunosimbisa, kuenderera kwezvizvarwa uye pfungwa dzakakwirira dzepamusoro uye tsika dzinosvika mberi.
Nzira inobatsira sei hutano?
Pane imwe nguva iyo yaifungidzirwa kuva chirwere chepfungwa, unhu hunongova hwevatorwa chete, simba rayo pamamiriro ehupenyu hwomunhu zvaionekwa seisina kunaka. Dambudziko rekutenda nderokuti rakaratidzwa nekuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo uye kusuruvara. Pakati pemasoja euto reNapoleonic, kunzwa uku kwakafanana nehosha. Munyika yemazuva ano, kukanganisa kwayo kumunhu wepfungwa dzinoonekwa sechinhu chakanaka.
Zvinotendwa kuti kufanirwa kwemazuva akapfuura kusimbisa hutano, kunomutsa kuzvidzora. Kuyeuka nezvevanhu vepedyo, zviitiko zvinokosha kana nzvimbo dzinotarisa munhu anonzwa achida uye akadzivirirwa, ane chivimbo mune ramangwana. Haasi pangozi uye ane tarisiro yeramangwana. Kushuva nekuda kwekare kunobatsira kupona kusurukirwa uye izvi zvinokosha zvikuru kune vakwegura avo, pamagumo ehupenyu, kazhinji vanotambura nekufungisisa , vanoramba vari voga.
Nostalgia uye kuora mwoyo
Zvisinei, kushuva nguva dzakapfuura, zviri nyore kuwira mukuderera uye kushungurudzika, nokuti uchida kuziva kuti kufarira chii, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kunzwa uku kwakanyanyisa. Kuyeuka, munhu anovandudza ruzivo rwake rwekare, achidzorera kwete yezviitiko zvekare, asi rake pachake kuzviongorora kwezvakaitika. Ichi ndicho chikonzero chikuru: vanhu vanovhiringidzika uye vanosuruvara kunyange pane zviitiko zvinotyisa zvekare.
Inzwa kuti kufarira kunogona kuva kurambana kana kuparadzana nemunhu waunoda, mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, kusava nemari. Hazvina mhosva kuti zviri nani sei iye zvino, kushuva kuchaita sokuti zviri nani kupfuura kare, hazvizovizve zvakare uye inowira mukuora mwoyo kwakadaro, uko zvisiri nyore kubuda pasina rubatsiro rwechiremba wepfungwa.
Nostalgia - chii chinoitika?
- Dendaase. Kana iwe ukafa kubva mukurwadziwa, ikoku kunzwa uku ndechikamu chezvirwere zvinouraya. Munguva dzakapfuura nevashambadzi veSwitzerland mune dzimwe nyika mhirizhonga vairambidzwa kutamba nziyo dzavo dzekuzvarwa, kuti varege kumutsa kushungurudzika kwekushungurudzika.
- Kunzwa kwekuda sekushuva kwekusati kwazadzika. Izvi zvinowanzoonekwa kune varume vanoda kuda kugadzirisa zvikanganiso zvekare, apo vakadzi vanoyeuka nguva dzavaifara.
- Chiitiko chekubatana. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa yeAmerica E. Erikson anotenda kuti munhu mumwe nomumwe anopfuura hupenyu hwake zvikamu zvitanhatu uye chivimbo ndicho chokupedzisira. Panguva ino, nguva yekufungisisa uye kufungidzira kwepfuura inotanga.
Nostalgia yekare
Kana pane chido chekugara munzvimbo dzekuzvarwa, zvino muimba itsva kune zvakakosha kuti urembera mufananidzo wehama dzako neshamwari, unodikanwa kumwoyo wenyika. Iwe unogona kugara uchikurukura navo uye unoshevedza, nyora tsamba, taura pa skype. Kukumbira kuti utsungirire sei nhepfenyuro yekare, iwe unogona kukurudzira kuti usanyarara, usazvipa nguva yekuda, uye nemusoro wako kuenda kunoshanda. Mune nguva yangu isina kufanira, fara, usangane neshamwari, fara. Mushure mezvose, chii chinyaradzo chinoreva kusuruvara uye kusuruvara, naizvozvo iwe unoda kuita zvose zvinovadzinga.
Nostalgia for childhood
Iyi manzwiro anozivikanwa kune wese wese uye inosangana neimba inodhura, kushuva kwemaoko amai vangu, mirayiridzo yababa vangu uye kunhuhwa kwekugadzirira. Zviri pachena kuti nekukwegura kunopfuurira kusingagadziki, vabereki vanokwegura, uye uyo uyo kusvika munguva pfupi achiri mwana, anomanikidzwa kutora mutoro uye kuzvigadzirisa pasina kuzvigadzirisa matambudziko avo. Kuwira muchinzvimbo hachisi chakaipa. Zviri nengozi zvikuru kutumira kuvhara zvose izvo vabereki vanoisa mumwana wavo, nekuda kwezvavaigara, nokuti munhu mupenyu, pavanenge vachimurangarira. Nhoroondo yemadzinza yakave yakakurumbira uye yakanaka.
Chii chinyaradzo chomunhu?
Izvi zvinoitika kuti iwe unonyatsobatanidza kune munhu anoita basa rinokosha muupenyu. Unofarira murume kana mudzimai, amai kana mutsigiri anobatsira uye anobatsira, anopa mazano, asi nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero chikonzero ichi chakaputsika. Zvinonzwisisika kuti kupfuurira upenyu husina rubatsiro rwakadaro kwakaoma zvikuru uye kune chikonzero chehukama. Munhu mumwe nomumwe anowana nguva iyi nenzira yake, asi kune mumwe munhu kana chimwe chinhu chinokurudzira, chinopa simba uye chido chekuenderera mberi, kunyange muzita rekuyeuka kweiye akanga ari pedyo.
Nzira yekugadzirisa sei nostalgia?
Kana iyi ichitaura uye ichidziya, usadzivisa izvi. Zvakakosha kutaurira mugumo wekutenda nekuda kwechiitiko ichi uye kuenda mberi. Kana pfungwa yakasimba yekutsvaga inounza marwadzo chete, kurwadziwa nekusuwa, zvino unoda kuwana kukurudzira - chimwe chinhu chingafanirwa kuramba uchirarama. Nzira yakanakisisa ndeyokubatsira avo vakaipa, avo vari mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma. Iwe unogona kutendeukira kune Mwari kuti ubatsirwe uye kugamuchira mazano emufundisi. Chero mushandi wekereke achati kudengenyeka chivi uye kuzviita kunoreva kufadza dhiyabhorosi.
Upenyu hunopiwa kamwe chete uye kana iwe uchigara uchigara munguva yakapfuura, haugone kuwona ikozvino. Nemhaka yokuti kunyatso-kunosuruvarisa nezvenguva dzakapfuura, asi imwe nguva nguva yemazuva ano ichava zvakare yakapfuura uye munhu achatanga kuzvidembawo zvakare. Uye, zvino, kurarama? Uye mumwe anofanira kurarama pano uye ikozvino, kufara mune zuva rose rezuva uye kutenda mugumo uye naMwari pane zvaanopa.