Nguva yekuyaruka inonetsa kwazvo kumwana. Kune matambudziko akawanda mukuzvinzwisisa iwe pachako, kutaura nevezera rako uye vanhu vakwegura. Mukomana ane ruzivo rwese rwekunzwisisa iye somunhu, kune rumwe rutivi anonzwisisa kuti haasi muduku, asi panguva imwechete, haabvumiri zvose izvo vanhu vakuru vanoita.
Kuomesa chikamu ichi ndicho rudo rwekutanga, kazhinji rusingafungi. Vechidiki vanoona zvakaoma kuratidza manzwiro kana zvakasiyana-siyana - havazivi kuti vanogona sei kuzvidzora. Somugumisiro, vanogona kuvharwa mukati mavo, kana kuita zviito zvinopesana, kupikisa sangano risingazivi uye kuzvitarisira ivo pachavo.
Kuti urege kumutsamwisa mwana kumhanyira zviito, kumubatsira kuti akunde nguva yakaoma iyi yekukura, zvinodiwa kuti utambe mitambo yepfungwa yevana vechikoro. Vachabatsira kubvisa kukanganisika kwepfungwa kwevechiri kuyaruka, dzidza kuratidza zvakajeka manzwiro avo nemanzwiro, vataurire maonero avo kune vamwe.
Mapikicha epfungwa uye maitiro anofanirwa kuitiswa nechepfungwa yepfungwa, kunyanya kamwe pamwedzi. Mushure mekutsvaga mitambo yepfungwa, vana vanoda kudzidziswa vari voga vanobudiswa.
Kuti vagadzirire vana kuti vauye kune imwe nyanzvi yezvepfungwa uye kuti vadzivirire kubva kunzvimbo dzakawanda (kazhinji vari kuyaruka vanonyadziswa nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, vanotenda kuti vanodiwa kuti vaite tsika dzisina kukodzera), munhu anofanira kutanga nemitambo yemagariro evanhu pamwe chete.
Psychological games for kubatana
«The Magic Key»
Iwe unofanirwa kutora kiyi nguva dzose uye unoisunga kusvikira pakuguma kwetambo refu kwazvo. Vana vanova mudenderedzwa uyezve vanodarika kiyi necheto kuburikidza nepamusoro kwezvokupfeka (inomhanya mumutsipa we sweatshirt uye inotambanudza kusvika pasi). Nokudaro, ivo vose vakasungwa pamwe chete.
Mufambisi anopa mirayiridzo iyo yose inofanira kuita pamwe chete - kubhururuka, kubata, kuputika, nezvimwewo.
Mushure mokunge mafungiro evatori vechikamu achioneka achivandudza, zvakakosha kusunungura rimwe chete.
Mushure mokunge iwe unogona kukanda kiyi munzvimbo yakakurumbira mukirasi, nechokunyorwa "chiyi chakatizarurirana."
Pfungwa dzepfungwa dzekukurukurirana
"Taura kana kuita (kusiyana kwe" bhodhoro ")"
Vana vanogara mudenderedzwa, pakati pese vanoiswa bhodhoro. Nekubatsira kwekukandira-kunze, mutori wekutanga, uyo anoshandura bhodhoro, anosarudzwa. Anobvunza chero mubvunzo kune uyo mutsipa bhodhoro wakaratidza. Anofanira kupindura mubvunzo wacho zvechokwadi kana kuita basa rakagadzwa nemuiti wekutanga. Inofarira ndeyokuti mubatsiri haazive mubvunzo kana basa. Kutanga iwe unoda kuti: "Taura kana kuita."
Kana uyo anenge ari mubatsiri, mushure mokunge achinzwa mubvunzo uyu, haadi kumupindura, zvino anopiwa mabasa maviri kana kuti anobviswa (kwete kunorumbidzwa).
Mafungiro Okuita Mutambo Mitambo
"Kukurukurirana"
Kubva muboka rinosarudza vanhu vashanu. Vanopiwa makadhi nemararamiro emunhu wacho uye tsanangudzo yemabatiro aanoita. Vanogara vakatarisana nevamwe vose.
Nyaya yehurukuro inosarudzwa:
- nei vechidiki vachiita zvepabonde?
- nei tichida dzidzo yepamusoro?
- Ndeupi murume kana mudzimai wakanaka pane zvose?
- Rudo pakutanga pakutanga?
- sei vasingaiti kuti tiende kumabhuku eusiku?
Nyaya yacho inogona kuva chero chinhu, vana vanogona kusarudza mubvunzo wavanoda kana kuvapa runyora rwemashoko ezvinyorwa.
Mumakadhi, vashanu vanobatana vanofanira kutaura zvinotevera:
- Kadhi rokutanga ndiye mugadziri. Uyu munhu anobvunza mafungiro omunhu mumwe nomumwe uye anoedza kufungidzira kubva kune zvakataurwa, achifunga nezvemaonero ake. Anotaura kune vose, asi panguva imwe chete anotaura nevamwe vatori vechikamu.
- Chikamu chechipiri ndechekupokana. Anoramba achikakavara nemunhu wese anomukumbira kana kutaura chero chinangwa chekuona.
- Kadhi yechitatu ndiyo yekutanga. Anotsanangura maonero asingatarisiri uye zvinogadzirisa dambudziko racho. Dzimwe nguva vanogona kuva
kunonzwisisika chete kwaari. Kwete kushingaira, anongotaura zvaanofunga nezvenguva mana mumutambo wose. - Chechina kadhi iri kudya. Anobvumirana nezvose, zvibvumirano kuvanhu vose, chete kuti varege kupinda mune zvinopesana nemunhu.
- Kadhi yechishanu iri kumhanya. Kuedza zvikuru uye nekushingaira kuedza kunyengetedza munhu wese kune maonero ake, kazhinji kunovhiringidza avo vanotora avo vasingabvumi.
Sarudza mitambo inofadza yepfungwa yevechiri kuyaruka, uye iwe uchavabatsira kugadzirisa matambudziko akawanda ezuva nezuva uye evanhu.