Chisimba hachisi nguva dzose chichikuvadza mumuviri, uye kukuvara mumuviri hakusi nguva dzose chisimba chakaipa. Chisimba chepfungwa chinokonzera kushungurudzika kwepfungwa, uye iye, kune kuzvidzora kusina kuzvidzivirira. Somugumisiro, sangano rinogamuchira kushamwaridzana kwakaderera, uye iwe (kureva, kubatana) inorambidzwa hupenyu hwehupenyu hwakakwana.
Migumisiro yekushungurudzwa kwepfungwa kunogona kunge kuora mwoyo , kunetseka, kutya, shure-kunetseka kupererwa kwepfungwa, uye zvichida kumanikidzwa mumuviri (kazhinji kunogadzira mumwe). Chero mamiriro ose ezvinhu, yeuka: vanhu vanopesana mupfungwa, vanenge 100% yematambudziko ivo pachavo vakatambura nekurwadziwa kwevamwe vamwe. Izvi zvinogona kunge zvisingatauri zvinoshungurudzwa zvevana, zviduku zvinotarisirwa zvakanyatsochengetedzwa, uye zvino zvinotungamirira kutsiva, chisimba, kusekwa, uye kunyange njodzi. Muhupenyu hwemumiriri wega wega (kana iwe uchiita zvakanaka), unogona kuwana nguva iyo munhu chaiye chaiye akazvinyadzisa zvikuru, achizvivimbisa, kukura "ane simba uye akasimba" kuitira kutsiva kune avo vakamutuka.
Mitemo yekushungurudzwa kwepfungwa
Mhirizhonga dzepfungwa dzinogara dzichizviratidza nenzira dzakasiyana, mumwe nomumwe. Asi kana tikaunganidza matambudziko ose pamwe chete uye tichikwanisa kugadzirisa, tinowana kuenzanirana kwemaitiro echisimba chepfungwa:
- kunyadziswa - kupa mhosva, kutsoropodza, kuseka, tease;
- kutonga - kubata mutambudzi semwana, yeuchiyeuchidza kuti maitiro akadaro haagamuchiri, kutarisa kushandiswa, kazhinji kanoyeuchidza kukanganisa;
- kuisa mberi zvinoda - munhu anenge atambudzwa asingabatwi nemazita, uye achishandisa mazita ekudanwa, mupambi anopomera mhosva kune akakanganisa nekukundikana kwake;
- kusazvidza-kushandisa shanduro sechirango;
- codependence - munhu anenge atambudzwa anova "chipfeko".
Icho chinotyisa zvikuru chepfungwa uye mupfungwa chisimba chiri glazing. Izwi iri rinoreva kuti mumusoro munhu anorwara anokusha kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pehutano hwake. Kana munhu anorohwa akagumburwa, uye iwe unogumburwa, unoti iwe unonetseka zvikuru. Kana munhu achidzokorora chinhu chimwechete kamwe nguva, anonyatsokonzera kukwana kwekunzwisisa kwake. Zviratidzo zvikuru zve glazing:
- iwe unozvibvunza iwe kana iwe usati wanyatsonzwa;
- iwe unotya kuita kunyange chisarudzo chisina kunaka;
- iwe unogara uchikumbira ruregerero;
- uri kuongorora maonero ako.
Kazhinji pane zvisiri izvo, zviratidzo zvechisimba zvepfungwa zvinonyatsooneka kune vakaroorana, ukama hukama-pasi, pakati pehama (shamwari "vest"), uyewo pamwero mukuru - "simba nevanhu."
Chinhu chakanyanya kukuomera ndechokuti utsungirire hutsinye hwepfungwa pamusha, kana zvasvika kune munhu anodiwa kwauri. Chinhu chokupedzisira chaunoda kutsvaga kune chisimba , uye chinonyanya kunaka ndechekuisa pfungwa pane kuti munhu anokunda sei hupenyu hwako, asi iwe (iwe pachako iwe) unoda kuvandudza hukama hwako.