Munyika yemazuva ano, tinofanira kutaurirana nevanhu vakakomberedza, pachavo munhu haagoni kupinda mukati mehupenyu. Saka, kukwanisa kutaura nevanhu kunokosha.
Kutaura ndicho chinhu chokutanga icho munhu anoteerera shure kwekuonekwa. Pazviri, vanhu varipoteredza vanoita manzwiro evanhu. Kukwanisa kutaura zvakanakira kunokosha zvose muhukama hwehukama uye mukushanda hupenyu. Asi havasi vose vanogona kutaura zvakanaka uye vanorasikirwa nevanhu. Kune vamwe, kutaura nevamwe kune dambudziko guru uye havangozivi kuti vangadzidza sei kukurukurirana vakasununguka nevanhu. Asi zvinotsigirwa kuti kana munhu asingakwanisi kunyatsojekesa nekururamisira mashoko kune vamwe, maonero ake haazotorerwi. Uyezve, kutaura uku kunotsamwisa vashori. Munhu ane kutaura kwakanaka uye ane unyanzvi, pane zvinopesana, ishamwari yakanakisisa. Vanhu vakadaro vane shamwari dzakawanda, uye zviri nyore kuti vararame.
Nzira yekudzidzira kutaura sei?
- Nzira iri nyore yekuita kuti muve nehuwandu hwekubatsira ndeye kusemwerera. Usakanganwa nezvayo.
- Iwe unofarira kune vamwe vanhu. Rega munhu wacho ataure nezvake, kwete kumubvumira nemashoko ake. Tungamira hurukuro mumutsara wezvaunoda zvekutaurirana. Izvi zvingaita kuti mumwe munhu ave nepfungwa yekuzorora uye awedzere kuzvidzora kwake.
- Chokutanga, tsvaga zita remunhu wauri kuenda kuzotaura naye. Shandisa zita rake panguva yekutaura kwako.
- Iva muteereri akanaka, kukurudzira vamwe kutaura pamusoro pavo.
- Chimwe chezvakavanzika, kuti ungadzidza sei kutaura zvakanaka, iko kukwanisa kubvunza mibvunzo yakanaka panguva yekukurukurirana - izvi zvinoreva mibvunzo inoda mhinduro yakazara. Izvi zvinodzivisa kusava nekunetseka mukukurukurirana.
- Mune kambani yevanhu vasina kujaira, zviri nani kuti usabatanidzwa muhurukuro kusvikira iwe uchinzwisisa kuti ndezvipi nyaya dzichava dzinofadza kuvanhu ava.
- Chengetedza kure. Usaswedera pedyo ne-interlocutor zvakanyanya, kureba kwemazana masendimita masendimita zvichabatanidzwa sekuwedzera kunyanya kune iwe.
- Pakukurukurirana kutarisa zviri nani kwete mumaziso, zvakadai kune vakawanda hazvifadzi, uye munzvimbo yechipfuva chesasolabial chemukatikati. Uye usatarisa nguva dzose, nguva nenguva tarisa kure.
- Usakanganwa nezvegesticulation. Iko inofanira kuva yepamwero. Vhura mavoko zvakanakisisa uye zvinononoka, zvishoma nezvishoma, zvishoma nezvishoma.
- Kana iwe uchida kuva mutauriri anonakidza, farira nyika, zviitiko, kuwana mufaro kubva muupenyu, rega hupenyu hwako hubude, zvino vanhu pachavo vachatsvaka kutaura kwako.
Nzira yekudzidzisa sei kutaurirana nevarume?
Zvakasiyana, tinofanira kugara tichifunga nezvekudzidza nzira yekukurukura nevakomana. Hazvirevi unyanzvi hunokosha, asi kuti uve mutauriri akanaka pakati pevarume, unofanirwa kuyeuka zvimwe zvinyorwa zvekukurukurirana nechisimba chepabonde.
- Paunosarudza nyaya dzekukurukurirana, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti denderedzwa yezvido zvevarume yakasiyana neyevakadzi. Nyaya dzinowanzobatanidzwa pakukurukurirana imotokari, motokari, zvidzidzo, basa, zvidziviridzo, nhau, mamiriro okunze uye nguva dzose inowanzosarudzwa - izvi ndizvo zvinodiwa ne interlocutor.
- Usatendeuka kubva pane zvinyorwa, zvakaoma kuti munhu atore pfungwa kana hurukuro ichikwira kubva kune imwe kuenda kune imwe.
- Varume vanoda kufambidzana, pavanonzwisisa chinangwa chekukurukurirana, saka vanonzwa kudzora pamusoro pemamiriro acho ezvinhu.
- Taura zvakananga uye muchokwadi, usashandisa mazano
uye kusasiya. Kana iwe uchida kubvunza - saka mubvunzo unofanirwa kuve wakananga uye wakajeka sezvinobvira. - Varume vazhinji vanoona zvakaoma kuratidza manzwiro avo, ivo ivo nyika yenzwiro isinganzwisisiki uye inotyisa. Funga izvi, uye zvichava nyore kwauri kutaura navo.
- Kunaka, kuzaruka uye kuzvivimba hazvizosiyi varume vasina hanya.
Nzira yakasimba yekunyatsonzwisisa nzira yekudzidza yekukurukura nyore nyore uye nyore nyore nevanhu ndiyo tsika yekuzvimirira, panguva iyo iwe unoronga unyanzvi hwako. Nhayo chete uye kutya kwekuenda kune vanhu hazvingatungamiri kune chero chinhu.