Maitiro kune vamwene vemukoma ndiwo nyaya inorwadza yeanecdotes, mafirimu uye nyaya kubva kumabhuku evakadzi. Izvo zvinoitika, zvinosvika kunyange kusvika kure kuti chipfeko chisati chagumbura vakadzi vanosvika rubric yemashamba "vanotora basa rine ngozi." Asi izvi zvose zvinogona, kana zvisingafaniri kudziviswa, zvishoma nezvishoma zvingaderedza migumisiro yekukurukurirana. Kazhinji, verenga uye ufuridzirwe nemazano edu kuti tingabvisa sei amai vamwene vako. Cherechedza!
1. Kana iwe usina mhoora mukamare, asi uine "mano" akakurumidza kuzokurukura ramangwana rako nevakatendeka - shandisa zvakajeka muhukama mushure mekuroora, mune yako uye pamabasa ake, uyewo basa re "vashanyi" mumba mako: ndiani kodzero, masimba uye, zvinonyanya kukosha, apo mutsetse uri. Kana wabvumirana zvisati zvaitika, iwe uchadzivisa kushungurudzika, zvinokanganisa, misodzi uye zvinogona kurambana.
2. Kana mubvunzo wekurasikirwa naamai vamwene vatsamwenga hausizve kutengesa, asi nderokurota kwako kunotyisa muchokwadi, ipapo murume wako anofanira kuva mushamwari mukuru. Kana iwe usina nguva, "amai" vake vachamutora kurutivi rwake. Rongai hurukuro dzisina kufanira uye mubvunze kuti apindure mimwe mibvunzo:
- ndiani ane basa rehupenyu hwemhuri yako - iwe iwe nemurume wako kana amai vako vamwene vako here?
- ndiani amaikadzi mumba mako - iwe kana amai vamwene vako?
- Ndezvipi kodzero yaamai vako vatenzi vako mumba mako, simba rayo rinowedzera kupfuura zvipo kune vazukuru vake uye kuungana manheru, kuhupenyu hwako uye hukama hwako here?
- Ndeipi nzira inokubvumira kuti ushande, kuitira kuisa pfungwa dzose pamusoro pe "uye" naamai vamwene?
Hazvina maturo kubvunza mibvunzo iyi yose kana iwe uchigara naamai vake mumba make. Kunzwisisa, mukadzi pane imwe nguva anoramba ari mukadzi, anochengetedza ndima yake. Ane kodzero yekusakurega mukicheni, kuchenesa imba yake, kudzidza nekuzvidza zviri mukati maro, kwete kukupa mazano, asi mirayiridzo uye kunyange mirairo, nezvimwe zvakadaro mumweya uyu ... Mundima yako chete iwe une kodzero naye kurwisana, chete apo ari muenzi, uye kwete mudzimaikadzi akazara. Pasi pedenga remba vakadzi vaviri havasi.