Mubvunzo wekutengesa mweya kune dhiyabhorosi kazhinji uchitambidzwa mune zvenyika mabhuku uye mafirimu. Iwe unogona kuyeuka mashizha matsvuku, akadai semufirimu "Wakapofumadzwa Nezvido," uye mabasa echikoro, akadai se "Shagreen Leather" Honore de Balzac (pano musoro unotambidzwa nenzira yakasiyana, asi chinangwa chaicho chakafanana). Nyika tsika inotendeuka pane pfungwa yokuti dai izvi zvaikwanisika, zvinoguma zvaizova zvakaipa uye zvinoparadza. Zvisinei, kune vamwe vanhu vanotenda kuti zvingave zvakakosha zvikuru kutengesa mweya kune dhiyabhorosi nokuda kwechido, uye vanofarira mune zvido zvechiitiko ichi.
Nzira yekutengesa sei mweya kuna dhiyabhorosi?
Iyo iyo nzira yekutengesa mweya kune "vanhu vane ruzivo" inoratidzirwa senhau yakaoma kwazvo, inosanganisira matanho akawanda:
- Pakutanga, unoda kugadzira chikumbiro, umo unotsanangura pfungwa yako kutengesa mweya kune dhiyabhorosi nemari.
- Zvadaro zvakakosha kumirira dhiyabhorosi kuti auye - iye, sekutonga, muchiroto, muchimiro chemurefu, murume akaremara mune mari inodhura, yakashongedza.
- Uyu unhu unofanirwa kuisa pamberi pekupa, uye "mutengesi" ndeyekuita mutengo.
- Zvadaro zvinofanirwa kunyora risiti, isa mucherechedzo wega (mune dzimwe nzvimbo zvinotaurwa kuti chigamba chinofanira kunyorwa muropa).
Zvakakosha - chinangwa chekutengesa mweya mumutambo iwoyo unofanirwa kuva wega-kushumira, mune mamwe mazwi, mweya haugone kutengeswa nekuda kwemufaro kune mumwe munhu. Iyi nzira inoshanda chete nechepasi, zvido zvevanhu - zvisinei kuti dhiyabhorosi anokwanisa kuramba.
Zvinorevei kutengesa mweya kuna dhiyabhorosi?
Haisi chakavanzika chokuti dhiyabhorosi ndiye antipode waMwari, tenzi wezvakaipa, hondo uye zvakaipa zvose zviripo panyika. Nokudaro, paunenge uchiita chibvumirano neunhu hwakadaro, zvakaoma kuvimba nehana yake. Iye achaedza kuedza kutora mweya wemunhu mu nguva shoma, inobatanidza iyo, mushure mokugamuchira risiti, anogona kukanganisa migumisiro yakaipa yakasiyana:
- Sezvo wava mupfumi, munhu anogona kuva akaora, iye zvino achiwira mumatambudziko uye njodzi. Kazhinji hupenyu hwevanhu vanotengesa mweya mushure mokutengeserana kunopedza makore mashoma chete.
- Kuti dhimoni rizadzikise zvaanosungirwa mukutenda kwakanaka, munhu anofanira kuumba chakaipa chakawanda sezvinobvira panyika (asi usakanganwa kuti izvi zvicharwisana nemasimba ekudzivirira, uye zvichida iwe haugone kuwedzera makore ako pasi pano).
- Kana watengesa mweya wako, munhu anorambidzwa kutsvaga vamwe vanhu vanoda kutengesa mweya - iyi ndiyo nzira chete yekuchengetedza hupenyu.
- Iwe usati watengesa mweya kuna dhiyabhorosi yeupfumi, chengeta zvinhu zvose sezvazvingafanirwa - migumisiro yechiito ichi ichange isingabvumiri.
Zvinoita here kutengesa mweya kumadhiabhori?
Dzimwe nguva vanhu vane hupenyu husina mufaro kana vaneta nokushaya mari vanowana pfungwa yekutengesa mweya inokwezva. Kukanganwa kuti mweya hausi wemunhu, uye chikamu chenyika yose, uye ine kodzero yekurasa zvachose muumbi. Hazvizivikanwe kana pane zviitiko zvekuwana kuwana upfumi chaiyo kana rudo semugumisiro wekutengeserana kwakadaro, asi zvinokonzera kukuvadza sekusakwanisika kwekuzadza vana zvizere zvemweya
Iyoyo pfungwa yekugamuchira zvikomborero zvehupenyu, kutengesa izvo pakutanga pakuona hakusi nyaya yekutanga zvakakosha, inoratidzira munhu semunhu asina simba, asingakwanisi kubata nematambudziko ehupenyu pachake, achitenda kuti zvinhu zvose zvinofanira kuenda saizvozvo. Kufungisisa nezvekutengeswa kwemweya, munhu anobvuma kwaari pachake utera uye kusava nekutonga.
Panzvimbo yekufunga nezvekutengeswa kwakadai, zviri nani kuzvizunguza iwe pachako, kuti uone kuti iwe pachako uri mupfuri wehupenyu hwako uye unogona kuita hupenyu hwako sezvaunoda. Kumbira mudzidzisi wepamusoro kuti akubatsire kana zvichiita sokuti haugone kurarama. Izvi zvicharatidza zvakajeka kuti mugumisiro wakanyanya kujeka, unokurumidza uye usina mabudiro emigumisiro.