Chero ani zvake wemazuva ano angaratidza kukanganisa. Saka, zviratidzo zvekuparara kwehutano uye kuti kubvisa sei "chirwere" ichi chinofadza kune umwe neumwe anorwara.
Chirwere chacho chinouraya murume akafanana nechando pamusoro wake, anokura asingatauri uye achisimba. Zvisinei, tsika dzedsika dzekurapa hazvikwanisi kubatsira zvakakanganiswa. Kazhinji, mishonga yemagariro haigoni kunyatsoongorora, uye dzimwe nguva inoedza kuita izvi uye haibvumi chero mhinduro.
Kazhinji, kuongororwa kwakaoma kwehutano hwose uye nhengo dzomuviri womunhu zvinoguma nechirevo: munhu wacho ane utano hwakakwana, muviri wose unoshanda zvakanaka. Zvisinei, munhu wacho anowedzera zvishoma nezvishoma, anorasikirwa nehupenyu muupenyu, ane hanya nezvinhu zvose, anotevera pfungwa dzekufa uye kuzviuraya . Kunyangwe kana vanachiremba vanogona kuongorora, zvichave zvichiodza mwoyo-chirwere chakakomba mune chimiro chakanyanyiswa, chinowanzoshaikwa.
Sezvo kukanganisa kwehutano kunoratidzwa - zviratidzo zvayo munhu mumwe nomumwe, kana zvichidikanwa, zvinogona kuwanikwa, kana chete kuparadzwa kunoitika.
Iko kune marudzi ose ezviratidzo zvekukuvara kwehutano, zvakagamuchirwa nemari. Ziso rakaipa uye kukanganisa zvinogona kutsanangurwa pakarepo, sezvawakapfuura kana kutora mari kune mumwe munhu. Kazhinji kacho, kukanganisa kunokonzerwa nevakwereta vanogodora mari yako yakagadzikana yemari, kukwereta kubva kwauri, inogona kukuvadza mabhizinesi ako uye kuidzorera kwauri gare gare. Nguva dzose funga usati wapa mumwe munhu mari.
Zviratidzo zvekuparadzana kwehutano
Zviratidzo zvekudzikisa:
- kana munhu asina chikonzero uye akacheka achirasikirwa nekurema, asingaiti zvakakwana uye asingatoreri nezvikafu, kana, zvakasiyana, nokuti hapana chikonzero chakajeka chinotanga kukwikwidzana;
- kana munhu ane chirwere chisingaperi chekusuruvara, asingavhari maziso ake kwemazuva, uye kana akabatwa nehope, hope dzake dzisina kujeka, dzisingabatsiri, dzichiendeswa nehope dzinorwadza neusiku;
- kana munhu akarasikirwa noupenyu, mukutsinhana anowana kusava nehanya maererano nezvose zvakabatana nechido chinokosha;
- kana munhu akarwara paanoshanyira temberi (kunyanya mubasa);
- kana munhu "akapiwa" nekenza kana chimwe chirwere, achaona, achiuya kuchionioni uye achitarisa mumaziso ake, achionekwa kune mudzidzi mutsvuku kana kuti maronda;
- iyo inobatsira pakuvapo kwekukuvara kwakadaro ndiyo mvura yakatsaurirwa, kana ichiiswa muziso reprotini inotanga kuve yakajeka.
Zviratidzo zvekuvhiringidza hutano hwemukadzi
- Kana mukadzi wezera rekubereka achida, anoedza, asi haagoni kutora pamuviri.
- Kana kuve nepamuviri kunopera pakuparara.
- Kana mukadzi asingakwanisi kurarama nekukurumidza kuchinja kuyerwa.
- Kana mukadzi ane zvinetso zveganda zvisina musoro (pigmentation, psoriasis).
Nzira yekubvisa kurasa kwehutano sei?
Zuva rimwe nerimwe mukati mevhiki, unofanirwa kutora katatu girazi remvura dzvene uye kushambidza chiso chako naro, kuverenga "Baba vedu" katatu.
Zvakanaka zvinobvisa kupisa kunotonhora mvura inotonhorera yechitubu kana kiyi. Spoilage yakashambidzwa zvakakwana nemvura yekubhabhatidzwa, kana iwe ukatora chikamu muVigil weVigil. Kugeza muJorodhani kunoshanda se ward yakanaka kubva muziso rakaipa uye kuparadza kwehutano kwegore rose (Kubhabhatidza kuEpiphany).
Achabvisa kutuka uye anonatsa simba revanhu kubva kune uroyi hwemafu, kenduru rechechi yeax, iyo inofanira kupenyerwa pamwedzi unopera uye, yakayambuka nayo, iverenge "Baba Vedu" katatu, uye nyengetera uchinyengeterera Saint Cyprian uye Ustin kuti vabatsire mukubvisa zvitsva. Mwenje unodzimwa uye zuva rinotevera unoisa mutemberi kuti uwane hutano hwako.
Paunobva mutemberi unoda kutenga muchinjikwa, uchibhadhara zvishoma. Pamba, tururira tsime remvura yakanaka kana mvura inopinda mujasi uye udonhe muchinjikwa wakatengwa mauri. Mvura kunwa pane isina chinhu girazi rimwe nerimwe zuva. Apo mvura inopera, muchinjikwa unofanira kutorwa munzvimbo yakachengetwa.
Nzira yekuderedza sei kukanganisa kwehutano?
Kubva kumisi yakasviba ichabatsira kubvisa mvura nemoto. Pakukura kwegore pamambakwedza, tsika yacho inotorwa kubva padziva remvura. Tira rinoshandiswa munyaya iyi rinopiwa kune muvengi, uye makisi akachengetwa kwemavhiki matatu muimba yekurara, ezvo inopisa, uye shure kwemazuva matatu kubva kumakuva akaparara haazovi nehutano hwechirwere chinouraya.
Kubatsira kubvisa kukanganisa kwerufu kunogona kuve nemakuva, kuti ave akanyanya kunyatso, kune mafuro matatu pamusoro payo, apo zvikwereti zvekukuvadzwa kunowanikwa. Munhu akafa anosiya chirwere uye hood nenzira yezvishoma zvemari. Uye mazuva matatu anotevera iwe unofanirwa kushanyira temberi uye uise makenduru matatu kumufananidzo weMuponesi, uchikumbira hutano hwako.