Musikana mumwe nomumwe ari mukati-kati memweya wake anoda kuva neshamwari yakanakisisa iyo inoziva zvinhu zvose pamusoro pako uye kunyanya, uyo anogara achiuya kununura munguva yakaoma uye angagoverana newe nguva dzomufaro. Zvisinei, usakanganwa kuti kuva neshamwari tarenda uye unyanzvi hunodiwa kuti hugadziridzwe uye huvandudzike. Ushamwari hukama hwakavakirwa pane kuvimbwa, kunzwisisa uye zvinowanzodiwa, saka kupindura mubvunzo uyu: "Sei ungava shamwari yakanaka?" Chokutanga, unofanira kuyeuka kuti kuva shamwari yakanakisisa yaunoda kushanda zvakaoma iwe pachako.
Nzira yekuva shamwari dzakanakisisa: 5 mitemo yegoridhe
- Ratidza kufarira musikana wako. Aine hanya noupenyu hwake hwomunhu oga, bvunza kuti anonzwa sei mune izvi kana kuti mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Zuva nezuva ugove nemafungiro ake akanaka , taura pamusoro pezvawakaona kwawakanga uri, usavanze maonero echokwadi. Kana shamwari yako isingafari, iva nechokwadi chekumushanyira uye kumubata neanofarira. Pakati pese, kuratidza kufarira kwechokwadi muhupenyu hwemusikana wako.
- Dzidza kuteerera. Rega shamwari yangu igoverana newe nhau, ichinyatsopindira muhurukuro, dzidza kuverenga pakati pemitsetse, hapana mhinduro iwe unowana mhinduro se "Hongu", "Kwete" uye "Inonzwisisika". Kana iwe ukanyatsodzidza kuteerera musikana, munguva pfupi iwe uchatanga kumunzwa uye unonzwisisa mafungiro ake kune chero chinhu asati agadzirisa pfungwa dzake kwauri.
- Shandisa nguva yakawanda pamwe chete. Mumuviri wehupenyu hwemazuva ano, zvakaoma kuwana nguva, kunyanya kudana shamwari yako inodikanwa uye kubvunza kuti nyaya dzake ndeipi. Zvisinei, sezvamunoziva, kana iwe usingakandire huni pamoto, huchabuda kunze kwekufamba kwenguva, hunoitikawo neshamwari. Kana iwe usina nguva yekufamba nemusikana wako, edza kuti ugozodya pamwe chete, kana kana iye, somuenzaniso, ari kushamwaridzana nemhuri, vaupe rubatsiro rwake. Kudya kwakadaro kunogona kuva kunonakidza uye kunobatsira iwe mose.
- Nokunyanya kakawanda kurumbidza musikana. Cherechedza mamiriro ezvinhu umo musikana anoita zvakanaka, uye usanonoka kumuudza nezvazvo. Kana iwe usingabvumirane nezviito zvake, taura zvakarurama iwe pfungwa yako yekutarira, paunenge uchitaura pachena kuti chero chisarudzo chaasina kutora, iwe uchaita chero zvakadaro unotsigira.
- Ita nemusikana wako zvose mufaro uye kusuruvara. Apo munhu ari mumatambudziko, kune vanhu vakawanda vanomhanyira kubatsira nemazano avo, asi apo chimwe chinhu chakanaka chinoitika mumusikana wemusikana,
vashomanana vanhu vakagadzirira kufara nemwoyo wose pamusoro pazvo. Saka fara neshamwari, sekuti chiitiko ichi chinofadza chakaitika kwauri, nokuti ungava sei shamwari yakanakisisa kana iwe usingazivi nzira yekugovera mufaro wemunhu ari pedyo newe?
Funga nezvehupi unhu hwako shamwari yako yakanakisisa inofanira kuva nayo? Nyora pamapepa uye uverenge zvinonzwika, ikozvino iwe unonyatsoziva kuti ungava sei shamwari yakanakisisa, nokuti izvo zvatinokoshesa kuvanhu, vanozvifarira matiri. Shanda iwe pachako, uvandudze unyanzvi hwako hwokukurukurirana nevanhu uye yeuka, iwe unogona kuva shamwari yakanaka chete kana iwe unonyatsoda kuchida.