Munhu anoziva kutaura nenzira yeupenzi achange ari "wake" mune chero kambani. Mufaro wekusvitsa vanhu pamwe chete. Asi zvakadini kana iwe usingazivi kuseka? Nzira yekubatanidza nekambani, kuti ungadzidze sei kuseka?
Vanhu vazhinji vanotenda kuti kukwanisa kuita kuti vanhu vasekere ndezvakazvarwa. Zvisinei, maonero aya haasi chokwadi zvachose. Munhu wose muupenyu hwake anodzidza chimwe chinhu. Anowana basa, skates uye skis, anodzidza mitemo yemitambo yakasiyana-siyana, inoridza zviridzwa zvemimhanzi, nezvimwewo. Izvo chete uye zvinonakidza. Inogona kusimbiswa pamwe chete neimwe tarenda. Kuti udzidze kuseka kwevatori vechikamu mumitambo yeKVN kana Kamedi Club, zvakakosha kudzidza nekunyatsonzwisisa matanho ekugadzira joke.
Ngatitarisei kuti tingadzidze sei kuseka joko nekudzidza mitemo yakawanda ye wit:
- kukusimudzira kwenhema - kuguma kwejoko, sezvazviri, kunopfuurira kutanga kwayo, asi panguva imwechete iyo inopesana nenzwi rayo;
- kushorwa kwenhema - kupesana kwekuguma kwejoko kusvika pakutanga kwayo kunongowedzera simba;
- chinhu chekusaziva ndechinhu chinonyanyisa kudarika kana kuwedzererwa kwezvinoreva zvinyorwa zvehoko;
- kusanzwisisika muhu-ndeye jekisa risingadikanwi, chiitiko chinongonzwisisika kana chirevo;
- kuwirirana maitiro - vadzidzisi vekunyengedzera uye kuseka vanoshandisa mazano ose panguva imwe chete.
Nzira yekudzidzira sei kuti uite zvinoshamisa?
Witori anofanira kuva akatendeseka. Kana iwe ukaedza kuseka pamusoro pehurukuro isingazivikanwe iwe uye zvachose usina kufadza, hazvigoneki kuti chero chinhu chinonakidza chichauya kubva. Ratidza uhu chaihwo unogona chete munzvimbo yaunonyatsoziva. Mukuwedzera kumaseke akaenzana, funga mhinduro dzinonakidza kumibvunzo yakawanda yezuva nezuva. Iwe uchatorwa semuswolf, kana kumubvunzo wekuti "uri kuita sei", iwe uchapindura panzvimbo ye "chiitiko" chakanaka chimwe chinhu chinonakidza. Zvakatonyanya kana mhinduro yako ikava izwi rekubata mubato rako. Uye iwe uchayeukwa semunyori wemashoko aya.
Nzira yekudzidzira sei kuseka zvakanaka?
Kuti uve mweya wekambani uye ace yehupenzi, zvakakosha kuyeuka mamwe mimwe mitemo yekumanikidzirwa kuchengeta:
- pfungwa yehuwandu. Usakanganwa kuti mashomanana chete emitauro ye jocular ichabudirira. Uye zvimwe zvinhu zvose zvichaonekwa sekunakidza delirium;
- kungwarira. Usava kuseka uye kuseka maitiro ekugunzva misoro iyo yekuti interlocutor yako inogona kurwadza kana kugumbura;
- kuzvidzora. Nokusekwa nevamwe vanhu kana mamiriro ezvinhu, usakanganwa nguva dzezviitiko zvako pachako. Pakati pese, munhu anozvitsoropodza anonyatsoonekwa chero kupi zvako. Sevamwe pakati pevashamwari nevanhu vasingazivi.
Uye rimwezve murairo kubva kumubvunzo wemibvunzo ndeyekuti ungadzidze sei kuseka kunzvimbo. Usaratidze zvaunofunga nezvombo zvehondo, kana uchitaura pamusoro pemari. Nharo yacho inofanira kufanana nehurukuro, zvisinei hakuna munhu achaitora. Mamwe mazwi anotaurwa kunzvimbo achaita kuti vanhu vaseke zvikuru kupfuura anecdote, kunyanya, kutorwa, kureva, "kubva kune imwe opera".
Vanhu ivavo vanoti "Handigoni kuseka" hazvinyengeri ivo chete, asi vamwe.
Mazano makuru ekudzidzira kuseka ndeyokuzvivimba. Kana iwe ukamira uye uchinjeka, uchiputika nepepuru yakashisa, hapana munhu anganzwisisa kuti mazwi ataura iwe ijoke.
Wakaziva nheyo dzemhando dzakanaka muhutano hwemashoko. Zvose zvinotsigirwa newe. Dzidzira kutanga kwevamwe shamwari, kukudziridza unyanzvi uye unyanzvi. Uyewo kuumba kuzvidzora uye kuzvidzora pamatunhu akakwirira. Zvichida munguva ino iwe ucharamba uri munhoroondo yenguva yako, semudiwa anozivikanwa zvikuru.