Zvinoda kushanda nesimba, kushivirira uye kushanda kukura mwana iwe pachako. Pane imwe nguva, vana vevana vasina kuroorwa vaitambudzwa nevezera ravo nevakuru. Mwana asina papa aionekwa sekunyadzisa mukadzi, uye pakange pasina kutaura pamusoro kubatsira vana vasina amai vasina vana. Asi, pasinei nokuti nguva uye tsika dzakashanduka, kwete mukadzi wese anogona kuzvimiririra kupa upenyu hwakakwana hwemwana. Hurumende imwe neimwe inopa rubatsiro kuvana vevana vasina kuroorwa, kubhadhara vana kubatsirwa uye kupa zvipo.
Asi matambudziko anotarisana nevana vevana vasina kuroorwa haasi nguva dzose anowirirana nemamiriro ezvinhu. Zvinonyanya kuoma kumudzimai mumwe chete kumutsa mukomana asina baba, kazhinji vanaamai vanoparadza vana vavo kana, asi, vanoedza kukanganisa zvachose unhu hwavo. Pakupedzisira, ukama nevamwe hunovakwa kubva pamararamiro akachengetwa, kuumba matambudziko mukukurukura nevezera rako. Zvimwe zvinetso zvinogona kuitika kune vasikana vakakurira vasina amai. Kuponesa mwana kubva pamatambudziko akadaro kunokosha, nekubatsirwa kwechiremba wepfungwa, kukudziridza muenzaniso wekuita nemwana unogona kubhadhara kusavapo kweumwe wevabereki. Zvimwe zvakaoma ndeye matambudziko emari ayo amai vasina voga nevana varo vangatarisana. Zvechokwadi, mutemo unopa rubatsiro uye rubatsiro rwemwana kune vanaamai vasina kuroorwa, asi, kutanga, havasi vose vanoziva nezvekodzero dzavo, uye chechipiri, kuti vawane mukana wemari, dzimwe nguva unofanira kushandisa nguva yakawanda nesimba. Uye zvakadaro iwe unoziva rubatsiro rwaunogona kuvimba nayo uye kuti ungabudirira sei haruzove rwakakosha.
Ndiani anonzi amai vasina kuroorwa?
Kutanga, iwe unoda kunzwisisa uyo anofungidzirwa ari amai vasina kuroorwa. Iyi nharaunda inokosha pakuwana rubatsiro rwehurumende kune amai vasina kuroorwa.
MuUkraine, chimiro cheamai vasina kuroorwa chinowanikwa nevakadzi vanozvimirira vachirera vana, kunze kwekuti mwana wacho asina kuberekwa muwanano, baba vomwana vakanyoreswa nemashoko eamai kana nekuda kwekuongorora kwehurumende. Kana amai vasina kuroorwa vakaroorana, asi murume mutsva haazivi vana, ipapo chigaro chinoramba chiripo. Chirikadzi dzinogamuchirawo chimiro ichi.
MuRussia, chimiro cheamai vasina kuroorwa chinofanirwa kana mwana wacho asina kuroorwa, kana kuti mazuva 300 mushure mekuparadzwa kwewanano, kana kuti pakusabvumirwa kwekuzvidira kwehutano. Kana zviitiko zvekufa kwemumwe wako, mamiriro acho haasi kupiwa, uye mwana weamai haabhadharwi mwana mumwe chete.
Kubatsira vanaamai vasina kuroorwa
Kuwana rubatsiro kune amai vasina amai vari voga zvakakosha kuunganidza zvinyorwa uye kuisa chikumbiro nehurumende dzekuchengetedza zvevanhu panzvimbo yekugara. Kubva pamwedzi wekushandiswa uye kusvikira mwana asvika makore gumi nematanhatu (kana mwana ari mudzidzi - ane makore gumi nematanhatu), amai vasina kuroorwa vachawana rubatsiro rwevana uye vanofadzwa nezvipo zvinopiwa nemutemo. Rubatsiro kuvabereki vasina kuroora vane vana vazhinji vanopomerwa mumwe nomumwe, zvichienderana nemamiriro emari uye nhamba yevana. Kubatsira mwana asina mwana amai vane vana vaviri vanoongororwawo pachavo.
Zvose muRussia uye muUkraine kune zvikomborero zvevana vasina kuroorwa muchechi yegoroke uye kuchikoro. Mhosva ndeyokuderedzwa kwekubhadharwa kwemipiro muhomwe yebazi rekudzidzisa. Dzimwe nguva kune zvinogona kupiwa zvokudya zvisina kuwanikwa, muchechi chechikoro kune mitsara inofanirwa.
Mukuwedzera kune rubatsiro rwemari, mitemo inopa zvipo kune vanaamai vasina kuroorwa munharaunda yebasa. Chokutanga pane zvose, mutemo weUkraine neRussia inoratidza mutoro wevashandirwi ekupa mabasa kune vanaamai vasina kuroorwa, kunyange kana kuvharwa kwebhizimisi. Saizvozvowo, mushandirwi haana kodzero yekudzivisa amai vebasa rimwe chete rebasa zvisina musoro kana nekuda kwekuderedzwa kwevashandi.
Kusiyanisa kufungidzira kwekusiya kwevana vasina kuroorwa. MuRussia, kodzero yeamai vasina kuroorwa inopiwa kwemazuva masere asina kubhadharwa okuwedzera kwegore panguva, iyo inogona kubatanidzwa nebhasiro yekubhadhara kana kushandiswa chero ipi zvayo. Mazuva asina kushandiswa kweimwe gore haasi kutorwa. MuUkraine, vanaamai vasina kuroora vane kodzero yemazuva manomwe ekubhadharwa kubhadhara. Kana kuwedzera kwekusiya kusina kushandiswa mukati megore, kunonoka kune gore rakatevera. Paunodzinga mazuva ose asina kushandiswa ekuwedzera kwekusiya anobhadharwa. Mukuwedzera kune rubatsiro runotsanangurwa nemutemo wehurumende, muguta rimwe nerimwe pane zvimwe zvingabatsira.
Kazhinji kazhinji vanaamai vasina kuroora vanoziva nezvekodzero dzavo. Kuti vagamuchire rubatsiro rwehurumende zvakakwana, vakadzi vanofanira kudzidza mitemo inopa kubhadhara kwezvipo uye kupa rubatsiro. Ichange ichishanda munharaunda yekubatsira rubatsiro panzvimbo yekunyora kuti uwane mazano ekupa rubatsiro mukuona kwemamiriro ega ega.
Vanaamai vasina kuroorwa ndeimwe yenharaunda dzisingaverengeki dzevanhu, saka vanofanira kuziva zvakanaka uye vanogona kushandisa kodzero dzakapiwa. Mushure mezvose, pamadzimai avo asina kusimba, ivo voga ndivo vane mhosva yehupenyu uye yekupedzisira kwevana.