Kukurukurirana inzira yakaoma yekugadzirisa hukama pakati pevanhu uye mapoka ose. Pasina kukurukurirana, hurumende yevanhu haisi kuzovapo. Kubvira pakuonekwa kwaiye munhu wekutanga, kwave kuchiva chikonzero uye chibvumirano chekubuda kwevanhu uye hupfumi. Vanhu vemazuva ano havakwanisi kuita pasina kukurukurirana mune chero rutivi rwehupenyu hwavo nemabasa avo, pasinei nokuti munhu anoda ari oga kana kambani, an extrovert kana an introvert. Ngatiedzei pamwe chete kuti tiwane zvikonzero zvechiitiko chakasiyana ichi sekutaurirana, uye kupindura mubvunzo wekuti nei munhu achida kutaura.
Basa rekutaurirana muhupenyu hwehupenyu
Mhinduro kumubvunzo wekuti nei munhu achitaura anounza isu nhoroondo yevanhu vekare. Inobva mukukurukurirana uko vanhu vekutanga vanobudiswa nemaitiro, uye kutaura kwevanhu kwakagadzirwa, izvo pfungwa uye zviratidzo zvezvinhu zvakaonekwa, uye gare gare kunyora. Izvo kuburikidza kuburikidza nekukurukurirana uye kubuda kwevanhu, sangano revanhu, vakasimbisa rudzi rwemitemo yekukurukurirana pakati pevanhu.
Kukosha kwekukurukurirana muhupenyu hwevanhu hakugone kusimbiswa. Iine simba guru pakuumbwa kwepfungwa dzevanhu, kubudirira kwayo kwakakodzera. Kukurukurirana pakati pevanhu kunovabatsira kuparadzanisa ruzivo, kunzwisisa uye kunzwisisana, kudzidza pane zvakaitika uye kugovana navo. Kukurukurirana muhupenyu hwemunhu kunomusiyanisa kubva kune zvimwe zvipenyu zviri panyika ino.
Nei uchikurukurirana?
Chido chemunhu mukukurukurirana chinotsanangurwa nehupenyu hwake hwepanyama uye kugara nguva dzose munzanga, kana iri mhuri, pamwe chete nevashandi, chikoro kana mudzidzi wevadzidzi. Kana munhu akadzingwa mukana wokukurukurirana kubva pakuberekwa, haazokwanisi kukura kuva munhu wekugarana, akabudirira uye tsika dzakagadzirirwa, achiyeuchidza munhu kunze kunze.
Izvi zvinoratidzwa nematambudziko akawanda evanhu vanonzi "Mowgli vanhu", vanoregererwa nekukurukurirana kwevanhu kubva mucheche kana kuti pakarepo pakuberekwa. Zvose zvirongwa zvehupenyu zvakakonzerwa nevanhu vakadaro zvakajairika, asi pano psyche inonoka zvikuru mukugadzirwa, uye yakamira zvachose nekuda kwekushaya ruzivo nevanhu. Ndicho chikonzero chekuti tinonzwisisa chikonzero nei munhu achida kutaurirana nevamwe vanhu.
Unyanzvi hwokukurukura nevanhu
Zvinotaridzika kuti kana kukurukurirana kwakasikwa kune vanhu vose, saka mumwe nomumwe wedu anofanira kusununguka kutaura uye anogona kukwanisa kuzviita. Zvisinei, vamwe vanhu dzimwe nguva vanotya kukurukurirana nevanhu kana, mune mamwe mazwi, social socibia. Kutya uku kunowanzoitika mukuyaruka, kunyanya kuoma muupenyu hwemunhu. Kana yekutanga kupinda muchikwata ichipfuura zvakaipa, uye munguva yemberi munhu achava nematambudziko ekukurukurirana nevanhu.
Unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana nevanhu hunowanikwa nezera uye pano chinhu chakakosha ndechokuti tive nounyanzvi huno. Mirairo yekare yekukurukurirana inogona kubatsira mune izvi:
- Kukurukurirana nemunhu, ita iyo nzira yakanakisisa, mumaonero ako.
- Ratidza ruremekedzo kumunhu wauri kutaura naye.
- Vimba nomunhu waunotaura naye.
Nevanhu vanozivikanwa, kazhinji hatina matambudziko mukukurukurirana, tinoziva kuti vanoita sei kune mamwe mazwi, zvinyorwa uye nhau. Asi kutaura nevasingazivi, zvakakosha kuti uzviite nguva dzose pane zvakanaka, usaratidze chero chakaipa, nguva dzose uve nemafungiro. Taura nekumwemwerera, asi edza kuva nechokwadi chokuti mazwi nemitsara yako yakakodzera. Tarisa munhu iyeye maziso nemeso akajeka uye akanaka, kuratidza kufarira kwechokwadi uye kutarisa kumudzidzisi. Kana iwe usingakwanisi kukunda iwe woita zvose zvepamusoro pane chimwe chikonzero kana chimwe, zviri nani kuti urege kuonana nomunhu.