Kunyangwe nguva refu asati aberekwa mwana, vamwe vabereki vanofunga nezvezita romwana, kusarudza zita maererano nevatsvene - mazuva anozvitsaurira kuvatsvene. Uye kazhinji anonzi mwana wacho nezita raiye mutsvene, ane zuva raakaberekerwa naro. Vakatombokumbira "kusatumidza zita rechecheche", asi "kuti iwe uchatumidza sei." Yaiva panguva yekushumira kweSaramende yekubhabhatidzwa iyo munhu akagamuchira zita rake. Uye nhasi tiri kuzvibvunza isu kana zvakakosha kubhabhatidza mwana zvachose.
Sei uchibhabhatidza vana?
Saka, nei uchibhabhatidza mwana uye nei vachibhabhatidza vana pamwe chete? Vabereki vakawanda havatombofungi chimwe chinhu, kunyange kana vasingamboendi kuchechi ivo pachavo, havazivi kunyengetera kamwe chete. Zvinoreva rubhabhatidzo rwemwana ndeyekuti iye ari pedo nevanhu vaMwari nechakavanzika ichi, anoswedera pedyo naMwari pachake. Zvivi zvose zvakabviswa kubva kwaari. Zvingaita sokuti, rudzi rwezvivi runei rune mwana achangoberekwa uye nei zvakakosha kubhabhatidza mwana asina musoro? Zvichida achakura nekuzvisarudzira? Pano hausi mubvunzo wezvivi zvakakwana. Inofanira kushandurwa nenzira iyi: munhu akafa muchivi uye akamukazve muna Kristu. Anogamuchira mutumbi waShe panguva ye sacramente, yakanyorerwa nerunyararo, tsika yekuisa chechi iri kuitika. Zvose izvi zvinoshandura hukama hwemwana hwecheche kune rimwe dizinga. Izvi ndizvo zvinopa kubhabhatidzwa kwomwana.
Pamberi pemutambo wekubhabhatidzwa mwana anosarudzwa nevanamwarikadzi. Zvakakosha kuswedera zvakasimba kusarudzwa kwevakasarudzwa, nokuti iye zvino hupenyu hwake hwose vachave vadzidzisi vemweya vevangobva kubhabhatidzwa. Pane imwe nguva yehupenyu hwavo vanofanirwa kunge vakagadzirira kutsigira, kudzidzisa nekukurumidza mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, kwete kurega kuenda munzira yakarurama yehupenyu.
Ndinogona here kuramba kubhabhatidza mwana, vamwe vanhu vanobvunza. Kana musarudzo akasarudzwa asinganzwi simba uye asati agadzirira kutakura mutoro wekurera mwana mumudzimu, zvino zviri nani kuramba. Mushure mezvose, muhupenyu hwako hwose iwe uchasungwa nehukama hwemweya. Iwe haugoni kubvisa ukama uhwu kana kuchinja pfungwa dzako mushure mekuita tsika. Mitemo yezvinyorwa zvinyorwa zvisingatauri izvi. Pashure pezvose, iwe unoona, vabereki vedu vari voga, hatigoni kuberekwa patsva mune zvepanyama
Zvichida mupirisita anoramba kuita mutambo wekubhabhatidza kana vabereki vepamutemo vari vanaMwari. Kana kuti sarudzo yakasarudzwa ichave yechitendero chakasiyana. Maererano nemitambo yeOrthodoxy, vanhu vanofanira kunge vakaonekwa sevanotendeukira kukutenda kweOrthodox. Kana zvisina kudaro, kuti achamudzidzisa sei mitemo yemweya yechitendero ichi.
Munhu wese pachake pachake anozvigadzirira iye uye mwana wake. Asi zvakadaro zviri nani kuunza mwana wako kuchechi. Mushure mezvose, hazvisi zvechimwe chinhu isu isu veOrthodox tinocherechedza tsika idzi kwemakore anopfuura gumi nemaviri.