Hazvina maturo kutaura, pasinei nekuedza kwevakadzi kuti vagone kuenzana, nyika ino ichiri kusungwa nekuda kwevarume? Zvakanaka, iwe vakadzi vangani iwe unoziva kuti ndiani akatora nzvimbo dzeutungamiriri mune zvematongerwo enyika kana bhizimusi guru? Hongu, munguva pfupi yapfuura nhamba yevakadzi-vatungamiri yakawedzera, asi haikwanisi kufunga nezvekuenzana kwemukana wevari vaviri zvepabonde . Nokudaro uwandu hwepini dzinobhururuka kumashure kwevakadzi avo vakakwanisa kubudirira. Uye kazhinji vanotaura kuti kusvika kunzvimbo dzakakwirira madzimai aya akabatsirwa nemubhedha weukama ne "simba renyika ino." Asi iyo nzira inonyatsonaka here kuti kubudirire zvikoro zvepamusoro ?
Basa pamubhedha - zvinogoneka here?
Mukufunga kwevanhu kune pfungwa yokuti zvinogona kuzarura masuo ose nehupombwe hwevakadzi, kuti bhosi munhu nokuda kwebasa rehukama hwepedyo achabatsira nokuzvidira kuti afambire mberi pamabasa. Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti iyi yose ndeyechokwadi, asi haikwanisi kunzi chokwadi chaicho. Ngationgororei nyaya yebasa re "mubhedha" kubva kumativi akasiyana.
- Vasikana vaduku vanokwezva vanowanzotarisana nekugoverwa kwebasa rehukama hwepedyo pavanosarudzwa sevanyori (vabatsiri vemunhu oga). Vamwe vanodavira kuti hapana chinhu chisingawanzogadziriswi mune izvi - chibvumirano chiduku, asi kutanga kwebasa kuchava kwakanaka, uye munguva yemberi iwe unogona kutarisa kushandiswa kwebasa. Ichokwadi, sarudzo iyi haigoneki, kana mukuru ari kutarisana zvepabonde nemunyori wake, ipapo haazoshande nekunyarara, uye iwe unogona kukanganwa nezvekufambira mberi nokukurumidzira - mutariri angangoda kuchengetedza "tepi" iri pedyo naye. Chimwe chinhu ndechokuti pfungwa ye "basa" inongororwa chete kubva pakuona kwe "nzvimbo inotonhora", saka sarudzo iyi inogamuchirwa.
- Chimwe chiitiko - basa rave richienderera mberi kwenguva yakareba, uye nekusimudzirwa mubasa iri matsi. Uye zvino inouya pfungwa yeupenzi - kunakidza bhosi kuti awane kukurudzirwa. Izvozvi, sarudzo iyi inogona kuva nehutano hwakanaka, chete inofanirwa kushandisa michina nenzira yakarurama. Chirevo chekuenda "nevevhisi yakashama", kupa shanduko yemhuka-ikundikana, nokuti kana iri kubudirira, icharamba ichifanira kushanda pasi pekutungamirirwa kwake, uye basa rose richabva pane chido che "master". Uye kana iwe uchida kubva kunze kwekudzvinyirira uye kuenda pane imwe kambani panzvimbo yepamusoro, zvinosvika kuti semuongorori mushandi, hazvikwanisi iye pachake kuti aimire uye azvitore-kurasikirwa kwekambani. Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, zvinotora nguva yakareba kwazvo kuratidza kuti inokosha. Uyezve vachiri kuda kuyeuka kamudiki kadiki - mari yehukama hwepedyo iye zvino haisi yakakwirira kwazvo, uye kuita sarudzo yakakomba yehofisi inotevera "mushonga", ichipa kuti inopisa mubhedha, hapana anozoita.
Kuedza kuvandudza chinzvimbo chako kuburikidza nemubhedha kunogona kubudirira mune ramangwana, kana iwe ukashandisa sechombo chekufungidzira. Iyo mubhedha ichapa mukana wekuswedera pedyo, kunzwa nekuda kwekushaya simba uye, kutamba pane utera, kubuda kune "vakadzi". Ikozvino zvinotora zvakawanda
Zvinotarisa kuti basa kuburikidza nemubhedha rinogona kubva chete kubva kune "iron lady", rakagadzirira kuumba kukwikwidza kwakanyanya kwevarume, kukanganwa nezvekugara kwevanhu vasina simba zvepabonde. Vaya vasina kugadzirira izvi zviri nani pane vasingatsvaki nzira dziri nyore uye kuvaka basa rinongobva pachenda yavo pachavo.