Isu tose takasiyana, asi kunyanya kwepfungwa kunotaura kuti vanhu vakaparadzaniswa kuva mhando mbiri maererano neunhu hweunhu: extroverts uye introverts. Rudzi rwekutanga runobatanidza vanhu vanosununguka pakukurukurirana, simba, kushamwaridzana, kushingaira uye kugadzirira kubatanidzwa mukugadzirisa nyaya dzehupenyu hwevanhu. Kana ari wechipiri - taura, zvinhu zvose pano zvakaoma zvikuru.
Ndiani anotaura munhu?
Nzvimbo yehupenyu yevanhu vorudzi urwu yakasiyana zvakanyanya nekutaura uye kubuda kune dzimwe nyika. Ive yakavharwa, saka inonyanya kuda kutaurirana. Makambani makuru ane ruzha haafaniri kuvatengesa, haafaniri kunakidzwa, asi izvi hazvirevi kuti havatori uye vanopedza. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, pane zviratidzo zvekutaura, maererano nezvinogona kusiyaniswa kubva pamhando yeunhu hwakasiyana. Ivo vanozivikanwa ne:
- mafungiro okufunga, kwete chiito;
- manzwiro okushamiswa neboka guru revanhu;
- fuma yenyika yechipfuva uye chido chokuchizarurira chete kune "vakasanangurwa";
- chido chokukurukurirana chete pamisoro yezvavanofarira;
- mune zvakawanda, mano uye chido chekunzwa, kwete kutaura;
- kusada kuva wekutanga kutaura;
- kunakidzwa kuva oga uye kushanda zvakasununguka, kwete muboka.
Mhando dzezververts
Kuoma kwezvivimbiso kunosimbiswa nezvakasiyana-siyana kunyange mukati memunharaunda yavo. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinodziparadzanisa mumapoka makuru maviri: manzwiro uye anonzwisisika. Inofungidzira zvinhu zvakadzama zvinoda kujekesa nekururama kwete chete mubasa, asiwo muhukama. Ivo vane mhosva uye vanounza basa racho kumagumo, kana vane mirairo yakajeka.
Intuitive - pane kudaro, havadi kunzwisisa zvinhu zviduku, vachifunga kuti zvinotyisa uye hazvishamisi. Vanogona kufunga zvakanyanya, kurota, asi havaiti chinhu chavanoita kuti vaone kurota kwavo. Vanogona kuita zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana panguva imwe chete, vasina kupedza chimwe chinhu. Kana ikasangana nekusarudza kwebasa, vanogona kutora nguva imwe chete, imwewo, kusarudza yakakodzera.
Nekudaro, kusarudzwa kwevanhu ava kunosanganisira marudzi ezvinyorwa, zvinotsanangurwa zvinopa mufananidzo wakazara kwavari. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa uye nyanzvi yemapfungwa Karl Young akasarudza mhando dzakasere dzakadaro, asi nhasi huwandu hwakawanda hunoshandiswa hunoshandiswa. Yakabatanidza vanhu vane maitiro akafanana emhando dzeunhu, izvo zvakakamurwa kuva zvina zvakakosha:
- Intuitive-logical;
- chinonzwisisika-kunzwa;
- intuitive;
- touch.
Intuitive-logical introvert
Vanhu vakadaro vanowanzodanwa kusvibiswa kwevhangeri. Kutaura kwavo kusuruvara, sekutonga, pane chimwe chikonzero vane imwe nzvimbo inozadzika. Ichi chirevo chinonzi rationalist: iye anosiyaniswa nemanzwiro ezviito, nguva, nguva. Zvirongwa zvake zvakajeka, asi anozviziva pasina pakarepo, sokunge kuti anoongorora dhambwe rimwe nerimwe. An introtuitive introvert haasi mutungamiri, asi mutakuri anotevera.
Anowanzovhiringidzika muboka nekuda kwekusarudza zvakanyanya uye kukumbira. Zvisinei, anoziva nzira yekuverenga zvakajeka zvinobatsira zveimwe mamiriro ezvinhu uye anogona kugara achiwana nzira yakarurama kubva mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma. Kunze kwavo vanoita sevanotonhora uye vanobatwa. Kutaura kukurumbidza, kunyarara, kurumbidza mumwe - kwete mumitemo yake. Anofarira kuverenga uye kuratidza.
Zvinonzwisisika-kunzwa zvinotanga
Rudzi urwu rwekutsvaga runorwadza nekupindira kwenyika yake, haruzivi kutengesa, kukakavara mukukurukurirana uye hukama. Panguva imwe chete, anoteerera uye akagadzirira nguva dzose kuuya kununura; iyi ndeyomumwe wevatendi vakavimbika. Haafariri makambani ane ruzha, asi haagoni kutumidzwa kunonoka uye kushamwaridzana. Anonakidzwa nekukurukura kukuru, kukurukurirana nevanhu vanofadza kwaari.
Logic-Sensor inotanga rational ine kukwanisa kugadzirisa kune zvakapoteredza zvokwadi, mitemo, zvinodiwa uye zvikwata zvezvakatipoteredza - zvinomurega kuti ararame munyika yake, kwete "kubuda kunze" kweruwa raanofanira kuva. Anotambura uye ane hanya, asi anoziva kuvanza kune vamwe. Rinofunga uye runyoro runoratidzwa mumamiriro akasiyana-siyana:
- yakasiyana-siyana - mari haina kupedza;
- Ane njere isinganzwisisiki - vatengesi nevashambadzi havagoni kuzvibata;
- Izvo chete izvo zvakapiwa zvichaita;
- Kune dzimwe nguva mafungiro anosvika: kubva kunotonhorera uye musungwa kune kuwedzerwa kunakidza, kunoonekwa mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma.
Ethical-intuitive introvert
Vanhu vorudzi urwu vanoratidzirwa nekunyanyisa kusagadzikana. Vanodavira kuti vanhu vakanaka uye vakatendeseka, vanokudzwa uye vakagadzirira kukanganwira ani zvake akabvuma zvikanganiso zvake uye anopfidza. Vanonyatsoziva maitiro uye mafungiro evasingazivi, asi havazivi zvizhinji pamusoro peavo vari pedo navo, vachitenda kuti vanogona kungovakwa nevanhu vakanaka, vakanaka.
Kudzidzisa intuitive introvert rational inogona kupa mazano akanaka, ane chokuita neukama hwakasiyana, hunongororwa nyore nyore mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma muupenyu. Ane chido chechitsva uye chisina kujairika; kuzvidzora, chido chezivo - chimiro chake chenguva dzose, uye kazhinji kubhabhatidza mukudzidza kwemafilosofi maonero uye zvitendero zvinotevera.
Iyo inoratidzirwa nekudzivisa kukuru uye kukwanisa kuisa pfungwa mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, kubvisa kushamiswa uye kutya zvinogona kuonekwa mushure mekunge dambudziko ragadziriswa. Kunyanya kunzwira tsitsi vanhu vane hutungamiri hunhu hunosimudzira nekumukurudzira kuita chimwe chinhu, asi asingatenderi kunyengera uye kumanikidza. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro inogona kutsamwa uye kukurumidza-kutsamwa.
Kutsika-chinangwa chinotanga
Rudzi rwechina rwehutano ndechokufungidzira-tsika dzakapinda, uyo anonyatsoziva vanhu uye anonzwisisa "uyo anopfuura kufema." Iwe haugoni kuzvikumbira, kuronga nguva neshamwari: anosarudza kuti ndiani "wake" uye ndiani "mutorwa". Nevanhu iye akangwarira uye haasati azarura mweya wake kune wekutanga, asi nevaya vanova shamwari dzake, achava akatendeseka, ane hanya uye anoteerera. Zvakaoma kutaura naye: zvakaoma kumubvumira, anopa kukanganisa kwakakwana.
Ndiwo munhu akangwara akangwara anokwanisa kuongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye kuita sarudzo yakatarwa inonyatsoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu echokwadi. Unogona kugamuchira zvinodiwa nemamiriro ezvinhu evanhu vari mavari, achida kubvisa matambudziko asina kukodzera. Haafariri makambani makuru ane ruzha, zviitiko zvakakura. Anonakidzwa nezvisingadikanwi, zvisingatauri kusangana, asi zvinotsamwisana nevarume vakawanda vanozivikanwa.
Kusiyana nedzimwe mhando, mutauriri wehutano-hwemagariro haadi kutenderera kunonoka kwezviitiko, nguva refu. Mamiriro ekuzvidya mwoyo kwaari ndiye unhu, panguva imwechete anoyeuka kukanganisa kwake, kukanganisa uye kukanganisa uye anodzidza zvidzidzo kubva kwavari. Zvinenge zvisingakwanisi kumutora nekushamisika: nguva dzose akagadzirira chero shanduko yezviitiko. Zvisinei, kana izvi zvichiitika, zvinorwadza zvinosangana nezvikanganiso zvayo uye kukundikana.
Ubatsiro hweZvesverts
Pasinei nezvinoonekwa nematambudziko, zvinyorwa zvine maitiro anokosha anoita kuti zvive zvakakosha mubasa racho. Chinhu chikuru ndicho kukwanisa kuita bhizinesi kusvikira pakuguma, kutevera mirairo. Panguva imwe chete, basa rinoitwa nenzira yakanakisisa uye yakakodzera. Mukuwedzera, zvinokwanisika kubhadhara zvimwe zvingabatsiri zvekuzivisa:
- Kusiyana mafungiro, mafungiro anofunga kune basa rakapiwa, kukwanisa kufunga kunze kwebhokisi;
- kuva nepfungwa dzakagadzirwa zvakanaka, kufunga kwekusika ;
- vane nyika yepfuma yakapfuma, kukwanisa kufungidzira;
- kukosha kwakakoshesa zvinhu zviduku zvingave zvakakosha;
- avo vakazova shamwari yavo vanogona kuvimba navo mune zvose;
- ivo vanokwanisa kuteerera uye vanonzwa interlocutor;
- inogona kuisa pfungwa pakushandiswa kweimwe nyaya, pasina kutsauswa nevamwe.
Kukanganiswa kwemashoko
Zvose zvinobatsira zvinotaurwa pamusoro apa zvinoita kuti vanhu vakadaro vasakanganisika pakuita basa rinoda kutarisirwa uye kutarisirwa. Zvisinei, ivo vanewo kukanganisa, izvo zvinodzivisa kwete kungotaura chete navo, asi kazhinji - uye ivo pachavo:
- kuoma kwekushanda muboka guru;
- kusada kukanganisa;
- kunyanya kunyura mumunhu wepanyika mukati: zviitiko, kuzvidzora, kusava nechokwadi, kuwedzera kuzvidya mwoyo uye humwe unhu hwehutauriri, kuita kuti kukurukurirana kuome.
Nzira yekuve yekutanga sei?
Inowanzobvunzwa kana zvichibvira kuva chirevo. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura kuti hazvibviri kuchinja hutano hwemunhu, asi kutarisa kana kuchinja kwehutano kunokwanisika kwekutsvaga hakusi kwakaoma. Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kuedza uye uzviongorore iwe pachako, uchiumba mamiriro ari pedyo neavo mazveri anowanzowanikwa, somuenzaniso:
- kushanda ndoga;
- gara rimwe manheru musi weChishanu;
- taura zvishoma uye teerera zvakawanda;
- chengeta zvavanoita uye kuronga chero bhizinesi;
- usapinda mhemberero dzakawanda uye usiye makambani ane ruzha.
Nzira yekukurukurirana sei nechitauriri?
Kana iwe ukasimbisa ukama hwakanaka nehutauriri, unogona kuwana shamwari yakatendeka uye munhu ane hanya nebasa rakanaka, asi unofanira kufungisisa mavara ekukurukurirana naye:
- haagoni kukurumidza kuita zvisarudzo;
- zvakakosha kupa urongwa hwakajeka hwekuita, kurondedzera zvinangwa uye zvinangwa zvebasa racho;
- Usamanikidzira zvisarudzo zvako uye usatsvaka kusangana kakawanda;
- usakanganwa kuti munhu uyu anowanzoshungurudzwa uye anogumburwa.
Sei zvakaoma kutaurirana nevatsverts?
Mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu iri muhukuru hwekuona kwepasi nevanhu ava. Kana iye achifanira kutaura neanoprovert, zvichava zvakaoma zvikuru. Chikonzero chikuru chekutambudzika kwekukurukura naye kunobatana nekuti chimiro chesvenvert chinogadziriswa pakukurukurirana kusarura uye yenyika yomukati . Anononoka uye anoremekedzwa, zvishoma zvoushamwari uye taciturn.
Ndiani angashanda introvertu?
Zvichibva kuoma kunzwisisa kwechimiro, pane basa iro vanhu vakadaro vachave rinokosha zvikuru. Iyo ndiyo inonyanya kukodzera mashizha kune vatsvaki: mutevedzeri, mubatsiri web laboratory, mugadziri, munyori, mushanduri, chiremba wezvokurapa, mupurogiramu uye mutariri. Munyaya iyi, mutungamiri-anotaurirwa nevakawanda anoonekwa seanobudirira zvikuru, anokwanisa kuronga basa rakajeka reboka.