Nzira yekukudziridza sei?

Zuva rega rega tinonzwa mumutauro wakafanana kuti mumwe munhu haaiti kupenya, uye mumwe munhu ane tarenda iri mune zvakawanda. Kunzwisisa mubvunzo - zvinorevei kuve, iwe unofanirwa kubvuma kuti iyi inhu hunoyevedza iyo inokudzwa muupenyu hwose. Wit ndiyo kukwanisa kwomunhu kuti ataure pfungwa dzake nenzira isingawanzoitiki, iyo inofananidzwa nechikamu chiduku chevanhu.

Nevamwe vanhu vanogara vachifadza kutaura, vanokurumidza kuva mweya wekambani, inoratidzika kuva kukwezva avo vakavapoteredza. Nokudaro, vechidiki vanowanzoshamisika kuti vadzidze sei kumira kunze kweboka revamwe shamwari, asi kugadzirwa kwetarenda iyi kunoda kuva mu genetic code. Kuvandudza tarenda ye "rurimi rwakakosha" kuchabatsira nguva dzose kutaura nevanhu vakachenjera vachazokwanisa kutaura zvakawanda zvinodzidzisa.

Nzira yekukudziridza sei?

Kuverenga kwako kuchabatsira kuratidza mukutaura kwako, kana iwe uchiverenga mabhuku nemufaro "kutaura kwakasimba" zvataurwa, kunyanya yako "mashoko maduku akaoma" anowedzera. Sarudza mabhuku anozivikanwa akanyorwa mumutambo wemasikirini, verenga kuunganidza maaprisisms nemashoko evanhu vakakurumbira - Faina Ranevskaya, muzivi wezana remakore rechi11 Omar Khayam, nezvimwewo.

Sezvo wakadzidza mapepa ane mapapiro uye usati waverenga majee ane mashomanana, dzidza kuti ungaishandisa sei munguva yekukurukurirana. Kuiswa zvisina kufanira, kunyange majee akanyanya uye akachenjera kupfuura ose, zviri pachena haazowedzeri kwauri maonero ekuzivikanwa kwenyika yose, pane kudaro, asi zvinopesana - vachaderedza kuverengwa kwevamwe shamwari. Unzwisise mune imwe yemashoko ako, asingatarisiri, kugumisa kutaura nenzira yakadaro zvokuti akaenderera mberi nenyaya, asi akachinja zvakananga zvarinoreva. Somuenzaniso, mutsara anonzi Mark Twain: "Kurega kusvuta zviri nyore. Ndakakanda makumi mashanu. " Icho chikonzero, kuguma kwemutsara kwete kungoenderera mberi pfungwa, asiwo kunoparidzirwa kaviri.

Kunaka uye kutaura mumashoko zvakaratidzwa zvakajeka mumashoko mashomanana "anoshamisa". Hapana anozofarira kuteerera mushure mokutaura, kwenguva refu, asi kutambidzwa kwekunyatsotarisa kuchave kuratidzwa kwewe wit.