Munharaunda yemazuva ano, hama nehanzvadzi havaroori, kunyange munun'una wababamunini vangangodzero, pane kubvumirwa. Uye rudo rwepakati pakati pebaba nemwanasikana kana amai namai ichisungo chemhosva uye chezvivi. Kunyange zvakadaro nyaya yekubatana uye kushamwaridzana kwakashamwaridzana kunobatsira.
Chii chinonzi incest chinorevei?
Kuti uone kuti chii chakabatanidzwa, unofanirwa kutendeukira kune eymology yezwi. Izwi rinobva kune rechiLatini izwi incestus, zvinoreva "vatadzi, mhosva". Uye kushamwaridzana kune ukama hwepabonde pakati pehama dzepedyo:
- vabereki nevana;
- hama nehanzvadzi;
- vanamunini / vanamunini nemadzimai / vanababa.
Izvi zvinoreva kuti, kubatana neukama hukama hwepabonde pakati pehama, idzo chivi uye mhosva. Zvechokwadi, taboo kune incest inowanikwa kune vanhu vose. Zvisinei, pfungwa yekubatana mumitauro yakasiyana inogona kusiyana:
- MuTaiwan, China, North uye South Korea, michato pakati pevakoma nehanzvadzi inorambidzwa.
- MuUnited States, chishuwo chevakoma vekugadzirisa hukama hwemhuri hachingasangana nezvipingamupinyi.
- Kazakhs vane murairo unorambidza kukurukurirana neshamwari kusvikira kurudzi rwechinomwe.
Incest - psychology
Muchirevo chepfungwa inokonzerwa nepfungwa, kugadzirisa zvepabonde kwevana vane makore matatu kusvika mashanu kunoratidzirwa nechishuvo chekuda kwevabereki vevasikana. Sigmund Freud akapa izvi zvinangwa mazita ezvepfungwa kubva mumatambudziko ekare echiGiriki:
- Oedipus complex . Vakomana vaduku vanoona zvepabonde kune amai vavo, uye kumadzibaba, avo vavanonzwisisa sevanopikisana, ndevengo. Nekugara kwepfungwa maitiro ehu, unhu hwekudzorera kwababa, uyo anotora maitiro ekunyanya kuzvidya mwoyo, zvinokonzera mukomana kusiya zvido zvake zvinorambidzwa.
- Complex Electra . Vasikana vachiri vaduku vanokwezva vasina baba vavo, uye amai vanoonekwa sekutyisidzira.
Zvikonzero zvekubatana
Mukati iyo iyo inokwidza vakadzi kuti vabatane uye varume, vazhinji vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanoedza kunzwisisa. Vanodzidza nhoroondo, tsika, tsika uye mazita ezvizvarwa zvechiitiko ichi. Zvakakosha kuziva kuti kushamwaridzana munguva dzakare-kare kwakanga kusingaiti. Uye muEgypt yekare, maharahara aisangana chete nevana, hanzvadzi uye kunyange vanasikana kuti varambe "vakachena vemhuri."
Vanhu vakawanda vakakurumbira vakanga vari vakaroorana vakaroorana:
- Munyori Johann Sebastian Bach akanga akaroora nemukoma wake Maria Barbara Bach.
- Munyori wenhoroondo yakakurumbira yekushanduka-shanduka Charles Darwin akanga akaroorwa nemukoma wake Emma Wedgwood.
- Munyori Edgar Allan Poe akatora mukoma wake ane makore 13-Virginia Klemm-kumukadzi wake.
Asi chikonzero chikuru chekubatana nemukati ndiko kukanganisa kwechikonzero chekuvhiringidzika mune zvepfungwa nemagariro evanhu. Kubudirira kwekuremara hakugone kuchengetedza vana kubva kuOedipus uye neElectra complex . Kunyange zvazvo kakawanda vana vanowanzotambudzwa nevabereki vavo:
- Murume anokwanisa kupinda pabonde nemwanasikana wake kana mudzimai akabatana zvakanyanya, achimupa nguva shoma kana kuti kuchinja kwose, sekutsiva. Mubvunzo ndewokuti nei asingaendiwo? Iko kunouya kunoita chimwe chinhu chakasiyana-siyana chepfungwa - chido chokudzivisa uye kusasangana nokushorwa, izvo zvinongogutsa nekuzadzana nemwana.
- Mukadzi kazhinji anonzwa achitya kurasikirwa nemwanakomana wake, "kupa" kune mumwe mukadzi wake, iyo inomukurudzira kupinda mune zvepabonde naye. Zvakafanana nenzira yekupa pfuma.
Mhuri yakabatana inobata nekuda kwekusaenzanisa kwakashata muhukama pakati pevabereki, nhengo dzemhuri nevamwe vanhu. Semuenzaniso, kuda kwevanun'una kune mumwe kune kutsanangurwa nekuzviparadzanisa kubva kune vezera muhuduku nekusava nekudaro kuisa muhupenyu hwavo chimwe chinhu "mutorwa".
Vamwe vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanosiyanisa zvikonzero zvitatu zvinokonzerwa nekubatana:
- Kukundikana mukugadzirwa kwepfungwa.
- Chido chekuputsa zvinorambidzwa, izvo zvinowiriranawo zvikuru nepfungwa.
- Kubata zvepabonde. Kushamwaridzana nematambudziko ehupombwe, akagamuchirwa kubva achiri muduku.
Mhando dzekubatana
Imba inowanzobatwa nechisimba, asiwo kusiyanisa kubatana nekubvumirana. Kune hukama pakati:
- vanhu vakuru nevana;
- pakati pehama nehanzvadzi;
- vanamunini / vanababamunini nevefews / vana;
Ndeipi njodzi yekubatana?
Chimwe chezvinhu zvinobatsira zvebasa rekubatana ndechekuti kurambidzwa kwemukati kunoderedza kukanganisa kwekuremererwa kwekuberekwa uye kusagadzikana kwezvirwere zvepabonde. Zvinowanzozivikanwe kuti vana vanobva muukama vanogona kuberekwa vakaipa, vane utano hwepanyama uye hwepfungwa . Izvo zvakanyanya kushamwaridzana kweropa kwevabereki, inowedzera mukana wekusununguka pamuviri, kuberekwa kwakanyanya, kana kuberekwa kwomwana nehuipi. Zvirwere zvemajini zvakanyanya zvine ngozi kune zvirwere zvakadai se:
- matsi;
- albinism;
- hemophilia;
- Thea-Sachs chirwere (idiocy yevana).
Migumisiro yekubatana
Ukama hwepedyo hwehama dzepedyo haisi nguva dzose dzinotungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipa. Asi mungozi yekuberekwa uye zvirwere zvemajeni zviri kuwedzera zvechokwadi. Mukana wekusangana nemaviri e "marwere" zvakaenzana kubva kune vausingazivi haisi makuru, kusiyana nehama dzepedyo. Saka, kubatana kunorambidzwa navanachiremba.
Ndezvipi zvinobatanidzwa kune vana vakashandiswa zvepabonde nevabereki vavo? Aya ndiwo matambudziko:
- kuvimba nedoro nedzimwe zvinhu zvinoshandura pfungwa;
- suicidal tendencies;
- kukura kwe phobias uye kuora mwoyo muhukuru;
- kukanganisika kwepfungwa;
Zvakadini kana kudanana kunoitika?
Chero kushamwaridzana kunokonzerwa nehupenyu kana baba kana amai vakanyatsotarisa kumwana wavo, mugumisiro wekuchinja kwemashoko uye kuparadzaniswa. Kuvhiringidza kwakaipa, kunyanya kana zvinouya kumhirizhonga, uye matambudziko ose anokonzera kuti zvakaoma kugadzirisa ivo pachavo. Mugumisiro uhu hupenyu hwehupenyu husina kubudirira uye nezvinetso nekuzvimirira mumasangano. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, rubatsiro rwechiremba wezvepfungwa rinokurudzirwa.
Kupindira mubhaibheri
Maererano nemirairo yechiKristu, chero upombwe chivi, uye kubatana kune chitadzo chekubatana. Kunyangwe maererano neBhaibheri, yekutanga yekubatana pasi pano yakaitwa nevana vaAdhamu naEvha . Asi sezvo akamanikidzwa, akanga ari mutsvene. Pane imwe nyaya kubva muMagwaro Matsvene pamusoro pekubatana. Mushure mokuparadzwa kwaMwari neguta rezvivi yeSodhomu, Roti nevanasikana vake vaviri vakaponeswa. Vaifunga kuti vanhu vose vakafa. Mushure mekunge adwa waini yababa vake, vasikana vakapinda mukubatana naye nokuda kwekuenderera kwemhuri.
Mafirimu pamusoro pekubatana
Kupindira mune mafirimu kwakajairika. Dzimwe nguva izvi zvakatsauswa, uye dzimwe nguva - zvisina njere uye zvinosuruvarisa. Mamwe mafirimu anobata musoro wekukurukurirana kwepedyo pakati pehama dzeropa nenzira imwe neimwe:
- Mushonga wacho unobva mune utano . Iyi firimu inobva kumukuru wePirates yeCaribbean, Mount Verbinsky. Wakaenda kunotora nyika yose muna 2017. Mystic friller, iyo maitiro anowanikwa muSwitzerland sanatorium pakati pemakwenzi akanaka kwazvo, anoramba achinyunyuta kwemaawa maviri nehafu.
- Imba yavanoti Hongu . Mutungamiriri weAmerica Mark Waters akafananidza firimu pamusoro penzvimbo iyo isina kunaka kutaura "kwete." Zita rinoratidza ...
- Bliss . Sensual melodrama kubva kuLance Young inotaura pamusoro pemutambo unofadza wepabonde wevanhu vanyori.
- Oldboy . Chizivikanwi chinozivikanwa kuSouth Korea kubva kune chairo chisingazivikanwi Pak Chang-po nezvinhu zve detective, nhepfenyuro uye zvinonakidza hazvizosiyi munhu asina hanya.
- 2:37 . Mutambo weAustralia mutungamiri Murally K. Tallouri vane makore matanhatu vari kuyaruka, matambudziko avo uye hukama hwavo.